As parents, we tend to teach our children to know right from wrong, but oftentimes, because of different reasons, we fail. One father learned that his daughter was bullying a girl who had cancer at school. Things went far and she even pulled the girl’s wig off. This made the father angry so he decided to take matters in his own hands and punished his daughter in a way that caused a stir, as well as mixed emotions, on the Internet. Since many slammed him for how he dealt with his bully daughter, the father later deleted the post.
“My ex-wife and I have a 16-year-old daughter together of which I have full custody (she has moved on with her new family)… My daughter recently got in trouble at school for making fun of a student that lost her hair from cancer treatment. Including pulling off her wig,” he started his post.
“Apparently there is some pre-existing bad blood between the two of them, but I don’t think that even begins to excuse her behavior.”
As it turned out, his daughter was now dating this other girl’s ex-boyfriend and that was the reason why they weren’t fond of each other.
“At some point the other girl mentioned how my daughter’s boyfriend was just using her for sex (this was actually a big shock to me as I had no idea she was sexually active) and called my daughter a sl*t,” the father shared with CafeMom. “That’s what escalated the situation and resulted in the wig incident. Supposedly they have been arguing in class ever since my daughter started dating the guy in question. Basically just stupid teenage ‘he said she said’ nonsense.”After he learned of what was going on and what his daughter did, he gave her two options to choose from in order to teach her a lesson. The first one was for him to throw all her electronics away, and the second one was for her to go to the hairdresser and get a bald haircut. The daughter chose the latter and went to school with a bald head.
“…Everyone thinks I went way overboard. Her mother went ballistic at me saying it will make her the target of bullying (kind of the point, teach her some compassion),” the father wrote.
He believed he did just the right thing, but not many agreed with him. A lot of people took their time to comment on the situation. One person wrote: “Your daughter is a bully because you are a bully. I seriously doubt this is the first time you used abuse and humiliation to ‘teach her a lesson.’” Another person added: “There’s a term for what you did. It’s called child abuse. Taking away her electronics would have been an appropriate punishment. Grounding her would have been an appropriate punishment. Disrespecting her right to bodily autonomy and humiliating her is not an appropriate punishment. She’s unlikely to learn from it and if anything it risks perpetuating a cycle of bullying.”
However, there were also those who praised his parenting. “I support your decision completely. You’re her parent so you have every right to do this, it’s not abusive, it’s real life. If she’s comfortable attacking someone for something they have no choice over she needs to see how it feels,” someone in support of the father wrote.
“She will see what kind of impact actions like hers have on the victim and that will teach her a very important lesson,” another supporter added.
So, what do you think? Do you believe the father went too far with the punishment? Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.
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Gordon Ramsay shares update on fatherhood – addition to family comes seven years after couple lost baby
The most well-known aspect of Gordon Ramsay is his reputation as the feisty English chef who rose to prominence in the world of culinary pleasures. By now, the chef’s culinary talents have garnered him decades of attention.
He just shared his thoughts about how his sixth time as a father is going! To learn more about Ramsay’s update, continue reading.
This past weekend, Gordon Ramsay attended the Formula 1 Grand Prix in Las Vegas and was delighted to discuss the newest member of his family, a baby boy called Jesse James.
Ramsay,57, was open about being a father for the first time at his age. “Extraordinary,” he remarked with a sense of humor, “just blessed.” Additionally, I’m positive that I’ll be the oldest father at the school drop-off, so I’ll wear my spectacles and a cap.
Early this month, the couple welcomed their newest child, Jesse James Ramsay, who weighed a whopping seven pounds and ten ounces. To the Ramsay brigade, one more loving bundle! Chef Ramsay posted images of his son on social media, saying, “3 boys, 3 girls…done.”
Tana Ramsay, his wife, also announced the birth of her most recent kid on social media. The Ramsay family is complete, she wrote, adding, “It’s been a nerve-wracking nine months, but we’ve made it and we have been blessed with this little bundle.” We adore you so much, Jesse James Ramsay,” she wrote.
In 2016, the couple lost the child who was supposed to be their sixth. The renowned chef shared a message on the tragic incident at the time. He started by expressing gratitude to the public for their support over the past two weeks for both him and his wife. “We had a devastating weekend as Tana has sadly miscarried our son at five months,” he continued, spilling the beans to them.
Tana Ramsay eventually talked about her experiences four years later. She discussed the event in an interview in November 2020. This occurred following Chrissy Teigen’s 2020 public announcement of her own miscarriage, during which she was candid and open about the whole experience on social media. She received a lot of criticism for being so open about the entire ordeal.
Tana Ramsay went above and beyond to encourage Chrissy Teigen, even praising her candor. “I find it very emotional, and I thought she was amazing,” the woman remarked. I didn’t know all the details when I read about her predicament, but a lot of it sounded a lot like mine.
“I think she was amazing for talking about it and posting the photos that she did,” the woman continued. “It brings it all back.”
She thought back to her own miscarriage and how people would avoid talking about it as if it had never happened. “To be honest, when it happened to me, I found it really difficult when people would talk to me and not bring it up because it seemed like it never happened,” the woman stated.
“It was really difficult, so all I wanted to do was talk about it with friends, family, and anyone else who asked.” “It was a really hard experience—you go from having a baby kicking inside of you to suddenly it’s not there,” she continued.
She also mentioned how incredible Gordon had been during the whole thing. “Gordon was amazing. He’s always talked about everything. He was very good at talking it out of me and never giving me the feeling that maybe we shouldn’t talk about it,” the woman remarked.
Gordon Ramsay eventually spoke about the death of his son in 2016 in September 2023. Rocky was the child’s given name, and they were thrilled to have him in the family.
The 56-year-old famous chef remarked, “It was very difficult to lose Rocky.” You cannot watch or read a book that will help you get over that loss.
He talked about how the entire experience had been “life-changing.” Tana had some health concerns, so they went from celebrating the baby’s health one day to learning the next day that she had miscarried. Everything transpired in a span of one day.
He claimed that the tragic incident strengthened the bonds between their family members.
Oscar, the couple’s fifth child, was later welcomed into the world in 2019. And in 2023, they welcomed their sixth child, declaring that their family was now complete!
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