We all go through life knowing that someday we won’t be here forever. I’m not afraid of dying and see it as a natural part of life. But what does worry me is growing old and not being able to take care of myself. The idea of relying on a hospice nurse makes me a bit anxious.
The thought of needing help with everything, being unable to do simple things on my own, and forgetting my loved ones’ names scares me. It’s not the kind of life I’d want. This fear reminds me of Maria, a music teacher who was cared for by a hospice nurse in 2016.
One night, as I was leaving at the end of my shift, I said ‘Goodnight, Irene.’ Then I asked her if she knew the song ‘Goodnight, Irene,’ and I sang a little bit of it. She looked at me and smiled,” Berg said. “For someone who didn’t usually talk much with the nurses, that smile meant a lot, and I knew I had made a connection with her.”As Rosipajla’s health got worse, it was decided to move her from the hospital to hospice care. “The last time I took care of Irene, I wanted to do something kind for her and her family, so I brought my guitar,” said Berg, who had studied music in college. “I sang ‘Goodnight, Irene,’ and it was a really special moment. I was nervous about singing in front of someone, but when I started playing and singing, she was so focused, and her family was really touched.”
Michelle Naypauer, Irene Rosipajla’s daughter-in-law who saw her as a mother, was in the room and moved to tears. “Irene was a wonderful person who treated me like a daughter,” Naypauer said. “In the last few months, Irene was in and out of the hospital, and we got to know Annamarie well.”
“Before the song, Annamarie had already done some great things. Our middle son, Eric, got married in August, and Annamarie helped set up FaceTime so Mom could be at the reception bridal table. It was beautiful,” Naypauer shared.
Naypauer, who recorded Annamarie singing to Irene, wanted to capture the special moment to share with the family. “There were so many tears, and it was just so beautiful,” she said. The song was a heartfelt farewell to Irene, who passed away a few weeks later at home, surrounded by her family.
Watch Joshua sing to Maria while she was in his carehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGFRHyt1sFQ
1. “Maria is dying. Then carer takes something out of his pocket and fulfills her last wish..” Newsner. Norhan Elhakeem. October 26, 2017
2. “Nurse sings to patient moving to hospice care in touching moment.” ABC News. Haley Yamada. March 2, 2020.
My Neighbor Ruined the Peach Orchard I Received from My Grandparents, I Ensured She Regretted Her Actions
Lisa inherited her grandparents’ cherished peach orchard after they passed away. It had been a part of her family for over fifty years, filled with memories of joyful harvest parties with friends and neighbors, especially her beloved neighbor Sam, who had taught her woodworking and shared many stories.
Determined to honor her grandparents, Lisa planned to host the harvest party that year. However, her plans were soon disrupted by a new neighbor, Karen, who seemed intent on ruining everything. On the first day Karen moved in, she complained about the peach trees, demanding that Lisa remove them because their leaves were blowing onto her property.
Taken aback by Karen’s harsh attitude, Lisa explained how the trees were important to her and the community. But Karen was unsympathetic and made it clear that she wouldn’t stop until the trees were gone.
Soon after, Lisa began hearing disturbing news from her neighbors about Karen’s actions, including a cruel incident where she had a dog put down by falsely claiming it attacked her child. At their annual peach harvest party, Karen called the police, claiming the noise was too loud, forcing Lisa to end the gathering prematurely. Things escalated further when Lisa discovered that her truck tires had been slashed and her cat was injured, all signs pointing to Karen’s involvement.
One evening, Lisa caught Karen smirking from her porch, further infuriating her. Lisa felt compelled to defend her family’s legacy but needed proof of Karen’s wrongdoing. When she and her father discovered copper nails driven into the peach trees, they set up cameras to catch the culprit.
It didn’t take long to capture Karen on tape, and when they confronted her, she pretended to be remorseful. But Lisa knew she couldn’t let her get away with it. She gathered evidence of the damage and filed a lawsuit against Karen, even launching a website detailing Karen’s misdeeds. The site gained traction, and Lisa reached out to a friend in the news.
With media coverage and community support, protests against Karen’s actions emerged, forcing the authorities to take action. Karen was held accountable for the damage she caused, and she was ultimately forced to sell her house and leave the neighborhood.
With Karen gone, Lisa set about restoring the orchard, excited to host the harvest party once again. The community celebrated together, and Lisa felt proud to continue her grandparents’ legacy. She learned the importance of standing up for what is right and the power of community support in overcoming challenges.
Leave a Reply