When Millie Smith and Lewis Cann found out they were expecting a baby, they were overjoyed. As there was a history of twins in Millie’s family, she had a strong feeling that she was going to give birth to two little ones, and her instincts were right. The ultrasound confirmed that she was indeed expecting twins, but the doctors told them that one of the babies had a very small chance of survival.
ragically, one of their daughters was born at 30 weeks with anencephaly, a serious condition that affects the development of the brain and spinal cord. They learned that their precious baby had only moments or hours to live.
Knowing this, Millie and Lewis wanted to give her a name before they said goodbye. They chose the name Skye. Millie explained: “We felt she needed a name before she arrived. Knowing she wouldn’t be with us for long, I wanted her to have a name in those fleeting moments”.
The name “Skye” symbolized a connection to a place they could always remember when they looked up to the sky. “We held Skye close as she died. It was the most heartbreaking moment of our lives, but I’m proud that she fought to spend that time with us.” Skye only lived for three hours, a brief time filled with love while her parents cherished her beauty and presence.
After her death, Millie and Lewis were supported by a “bereavement midwife” and given access to a “Daisy Room”, a special room where parents could spend time with their baby before and after death. However, after Skye was gone, her memory seemed to fade; no one spoke of her, leaving Millie feeling like her daughter had never existed, which made her angry.
“Most of the nurses knew what had happened, but as the weeks went by, people stopped mentioning Skye. Other families around me had no idea about our loss”, Millie recalls.
While her other daughter, Callie, was still in the NICU, another mother who knew nothing about Millie’s situation remarked how lucky she was not to have twins. “None of the other parents knew about Skye, and that innocent comment almost broke me. I left the room in tears but didn’t have the heart to explain”, Millie said. “A simple sticker could have prevented this.”
This experience inspired Millie to design a sticker for incubators to mark the loss of one or more babies in a multiple birth. She chose butterflies to symbolise the ‘flown away’ babies and used the colour purple, which is suitable for any gender.
From this idea grew the Skye High Foundation, which promotes the Purple Butterflies initiative and helps raise awareness in hospitals around the world. The foundation also offers a range of purple butterfly merchandise.
“Although I can’t prevent these situations from occurring, I believe the more support we can provide through initiatives like the stickers, the better it will be for others who suffer this loss. It’s an incredibly tough journey”, said Millie. Today, her surviving daughter Callie is seven years old.
From Storage Wars to Today: This Is Her Now
Brandi Passante, best known for her role on the reality TV show “Storage Wars,” has been up to quite a bit since her days bidding on storage lockers. After the show’s success, Brandi has been focusing on various endeavors and enjoying time with her family.
One significant development in Brandi’s life is her transition from TV personality to business owner. Alongside her partner, Jarrod Schulz, she opened a second-hand store called “Now and Then Second Hand Store” in Orange, California. The store offers a wide range of items, from clothing and furniture to antiques and collectibles, catering to fans and enthusiasts alike.
Additionally, Brandi has ventured into the world of social media, where she engages with her fans on platforms like Instagram. She shares glimpses of her daily life, including moments with her children and updates on her business ventures. Through these platforms, Brandi has built a loyal following and continues to connect with fans who have supported her throughout her career.
Aside from her professional pursuits, Brandi remains dedicated to her family. She prioritizes spending quality time with her children, teaching them life lessons and creating lasting memories together. Despite the demands of her career, family remains at the forefront of Brandi’s life, and she cherishes every moment she gets to spend with her loved ones.
In summary, Brandi Passante has transitioned from her role on “Storage Wars” to focus on her business ventures, social media presence, and family life. While she may no longer be bidding on storage lockers, Brandi continues to captivate audiences with her entrepreneurial spirit and genuine personality.
After her breakup, Brandi decided to get a tattoo of the word “Free” to mark the occasion and symbolize her newfound independence. Since then, she has embarked on a new romantic journey with someone special.
Brandi is currently dating Clifford Beaver, and their relationship seems to be blossoming. In a heartwarming Instagram post, Clifford expressed his love for Brandi on her birthday, saying, “Wishing a happy birthday to Brandi. I am deeply in love with you, and I’m grateful every day that our paths crossed.”
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