Most adults know that being a grown-up isn’t as simple as it seems to a child.
Kids might see things like food in the fridge, a comfy home, and unlimited internet, but they often don’t understand the work it takes to have those things. One mom decided to teach her disrespectful son a funny, “real world” lesson to show him that “nothing comes for free.”
In 2015, Heidi Johnson was struggling with her defiant 13-year-old son, Aaron. She explained that Aaron “wanted the benefits of growing up without the responsibility that comes with it.”
Aaron had started making a little bit of money as a YouTuber and thought he didn’t have to follow his mom’s rules about doing his homework. He even stormed out of her room, saying he was a “free person” because he was “making money.”
In response to his behavior, the single mother wrote a “tough love” letter to Aaron and shared it on Facebook. Almost ten years later, her post has gone viral again.
Johnson’s note begins, “Since you seem to have forgotten that you’re only 13, and I’m the parent, and that you don’t want to be controlled, I guess you need a lesson in independence.” In what she called a “roommate contract,” she laid out the rules Aaron would need to follow if he wanted to act like an adult.
She continued, “Since you’re earning money now, it should be easier for you to pay back for everything I’ve bought for you.” Johnson added that if he wanted things like his lamp, lightbulbs, or access to the internet, he’d have to pay his part of the costs.
In her letter, Johnson listed the conditions Aaron would need to follow, including paying for rent and utilities. She also expected him to cook his own meals and help with regular cleaning around the house.
Johnson signed the letter, “Love, Mom.”
Taking Action
Living in Venice, Italy, Johnson shared that when Aaron saw the letter taped to his door, he crumpled it up, threw it on the floor, and stormed out of their apartment.
Johnson felt he just needed some time to think—and she used that time to start taking back some of the things from his room.
Once Aaron had time to think, he asked his mom what he could do to start re-earning his privileges. He even gathered more items from his room and handed them to her, asking how he could earn them back.
Johnson explained that this was never about making him pay her back; it was about teaching him to understand the cost of things. Aaron quickly realized he couldn’t afford rent, utilities, or food on his own.
Online commenters supported her approach, praising her for her creative discipline style. One person wrote, “Great job! Nothing in the agreement is harsh, but it will teach him a lesson he’ll remember.” Another said, “You’re an amazing mom for giving your son a chance to learn and grow.” A third comment added, “Bravo for being a parent and not just a maid.”
Some people accused her of publicly shaming her son. In response, Johnson wrote another post saying she was “not ashamed” of what she did.
“A teenager will push their limits,” she explained. “They’re in a stage where they’re stepping into adulthood but still rooted in childhood… I can’t send this child into college or the workforce with an attitude of ‘I’ll get to it when I feel like it’ when a boss asks him to get a job done. That’s how the real world works.”
Johnson ended by saying, “Nothing in life is free. Somewhere, someone is making a sacrifice.”
Roy Rogers and Dale Evans: The Legendary Hollywood Family
Famed Hollywood stars Roy Rogers and Dale Evans were not only known for their iconic roles on the big screen but also became beloved television stars. Roy, known as the “King of the Cowboys,” captivated audiences with his singing cowboy persona and his faithful palomino horse, Trigger. He had his own show, the Roy Rogers Show, and appeared in over a hundred films.
Between his marriages to Grace Arline Wilkins and Dale Evans, Roy Rogers had a total of nine children. While some followed in their famous father’s footsteps in Hollywood, others chose quieter paths. Let’s take a closer look at the fascinating lives of Roy Rogers’ offspring.
Cheryl Rogers and Linda Lou Rogers: Two Paths, One Family
Grace Arline Wilkins and Cheryl Rogers adopted Cheryl when she was young. As a child, she made cameo appearances in films alongside her father and his famous horse, Trigger. Linda, Roy Rogers’ biological daughter with Grace, lived a quieter life. She was married to priest Gary Johnson for over 40 years until his passing in 2008. Linda now enjoys her time with her children and grandchildren in California.
Dusty Rogers: The Legacy Continues
Roy Rogers Jr., affectionately known as Dusty, is Roy Rogers’ only biological son. Dusty made his first appearance on The Roy Rogers Show as a young boy and later went on to manage his father’s career. He was also a talented musician, leading the bands Roy Rogers Jr. and the High Riders and being a member of the Sons of the Pioneers.
Honoring the Lost: Robin and Deborah Lee Rogers
Dale Evans and Roy Rogers’ daughter, Robin, tragically passed away at a young age due to mumps complications. To honor her memory, Dale wrote the heartfelt book “Angel Unaware.” Deborah Lee Rogers, adopted during the Korean War, found a loving home with the family. Sadly, Deborah and other children from her church were involved in a devastating bus accident in Los Angeles, resulting in her untimely death at the age of 12.
Dodie Rogers and Mimi Rogers: Love and Adoption
Native American Dodie Rogers joined the family when she was just seven months old. After marrying NASA worker Jon Patterson, Dodie became a mother to their daughter, Kristin, and now enjoys being a grandmother to her own grandkids. Mimi Rogers, originally named Marion Fleming, became a member of the family after Roy and Dale adopted her from a children’s home in Scotland. Mimi went on to have three children with her husband, Marine Dan, before his passing. Now a grandma herself, Mimi cherishes her role in the family.
Tom Fox: A Musical Life
Tom Fox, Dale Evans’ biological son from her previous marriage, was lovingly brought up by Roy and Dale. Throughout his life, Tom pursued a career as a music minister and educator, leaving a lasting impact on those he encountered. He passed away in 2012, leaving behind a legacy of music and family values.
Through happiness, sorrow, and love, the remarkable story of Roy Rogers and Dale Evans’ family stands as a testament to their unwavering family principles and lasting impact on Hollywood and beyond.
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