A lot of big, tragic and important things have happened to this wonderful country of ours since April 2014. None of which I have covered. I was too busy writing about hungover parenting, ancient philosophy and my dog Colin.
Out of the 536 columns I have written, 27 were about that guy. Far too few. He is such a good boy, he deserves an article a week.
Today is the end of an era for me, and whenever these final events pop up in our lives, we can’t help but think about the ultimate end.
Everything we do, we will one day do for the last time. That’s why you have to enjoy things while they are around. It’s not just big events like leaving a job, house or loved one either. Whatever moment you happen to be in now, you will never get it back, and you don’t know how many more you have.
Everything we do in life, from eating pizza to spending time with the people we love, to driving, writing, drinking or breathing, we will one day experience for the final time. It might happen tomorrow. This can be either a depressing or an inspiring thought, depending on how you look at it.
A few years back in this column, I interviewed professor of philosophy William B Irvine, of Wright State University, Ohio, on this very topic. He put it this way on a Zoom call: “Recognition of the impermanence of everything in life can invest the things we do with a significance and intensity that would otherwise be absent. The only way we can be truly alive is if we make it our business periodically to entertain thoughts of the end.”
Today’s column is very meaningful to me because it is my last. Like the last night with a lover before she goes overseas. And just like a lover, there have been some half-arsed efforts put in from me over the years. Last week, for example, I spent 750 words moaning about how bad my cricket team is. But the truth is that any of my columns could have been the final. If I had reminded myself every week for the past 10 years that the end is inevitable, I may have been more grateful for having a column and appreciated writing them all as much as I am this one.
While everything we do could have more meaning with a focus on finitude, some things are inherently more worthwhile than others. There is no doubt my column “The pros and cons of wearing Speedos” from November 2022 was less meaningful than most things in this world. That was a waste of everyone’s time. So, if we only have so much time, how do we pick the best things to do?
Well, Oliver Burkeman, the author of Four Thousand Weeks – Time Management For Mortals, suggested this to me in a 2022 column: “Ask yourself, does this choice enlarge me? You usually know on some unspoken level if it does. That’s a good way to distinguish between options.”
With that in mind, I don’t feel great about my 2018 article on “New Zealand’s best hole”. That didn’t enlarge anyone.
There will be people reading this column right now who have loved my writing in the Herald and are sad to see it end. Others will have hated it and are glad to see me go. Many won’t have any opinion at all. But for those in the first camp, I have good news. I have a book coming out on May 28 called A Life Less Punishing – 13 Ways To Love The Life You Got (Allen and Unwin Book Publishers). It’s a deep dive into the history, philosophy and science of not wasting our time lost in anger, loneliness, humiliation, stress, fear, boredom and all the other ways we find to not enjoy perfectly good lives. It’s available for pre-order right now (google it if you’re interested).
A Life Less Punishing took me two years to write and is equivalent in words to 100 of these columns. Which would be a complete nightmare for those in the hate camp, but as I say, great news for those who want more.
Anyway, thanks to the Herald for having me, thanks to the lovely people who make an effort to say nice things to me about my column nearly every day and thanks to the universe for every single second we get.
Bless!
The Remarkable Journey of Laura Ingraham
Uncovering the Female Figure Behind the TV Screen
With her fascinating personality and powerful voice, Laura Ingraham, one of today’s most prominent talk show hosts and a familiar face on Fox News, has captivated audiences. When the cameras are off, though, who is she? Let us explore this remarkable woman’s life.
Childhood and Schooling
Laura Ingraham was born in Glastonbury, Connecticut, on June 19, 1963, and raised in a working-class household. Her mother, Anne Caroline Kozak, worked as a server and at the local school, while her father, James Frederick Ingraham III, was a World War II veteran and ran a car wash. Laura, who grew up with three older brothers, remembers her early years as “rough and tumble.”
Following her 1981 graduation from Glastonbury High School, Laura attended the prestigious University of Dartmouth in New Hampshire to further her studies. As the chief editor of the school newspaper, the well-known conservative Dartmouth Review, she caused quite a stir there. Laura, who doesn’t hesitate to stir up controversy, gained notoriety when she dispatched an undercover journalist to look into an LGBTQ student organization.
From the Media to Politics
Laura Ingraham found herself employed as a speechwriter for the Secretary of Transportation in the Reagan administration after graduating from college. Her love of the law drove her to work as a judicial clerk before she entered the media in the middle of the 1990s. She started her successful radio career with “The Laura Ingraham Show” after hosting her own program, “Watch It!” on MSNBC. Her radio show gained enormous popularity, making her a well-known conservative political voice.
The success Laura Ingraham had on television didn’t end there. Her popularity increased even further when she appeared as a guest host on Fox News’ “The O’Reilly Factor.” This helped pave the way for the debut of her own program, “The Ingraham Angle,” which took off right away.
A Political and Cultural Powerhouse
Laura Ingraham rose to prominence in the industry as one of the most powerful women thanks to her eloquence and sincere approach to political and cultural analysis. She wrote several New York Times best-selling novels and was featured on the cover of “The New York Times Magazine.”
Ingraham Laura’s Private Life
Although Laura Ingraham’s professional life and conservative opinions have garnered media attention, many people are equally curious about her personal life. Laura has remained single despite having dated well-known men including political analyst Keith Olbermann and former senator Robert Torricelli.
She still prioritizes her work and her relationships with her three adoptive children. Laura has welcomed Maria from Guatemala and her sons Dmitri and Nikolai from Russia into her loving home. She is an advocate for both domestic and international adoption.
It is incredibly motivating to see Laura Ingraham’s transformation from a conservative journalist to a well-known talk show host. Her unwavering dedication and her ability to express her passionate thoughts have solidified her status as a significant player in the media sector.
Don’t forget to tell your friends and family about this amazing story!
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