The life story of Patrick Hardison from Mississippi is nothing less than a mind-blowing one. This man is the first American who has received a face transplant back in 2015 after his face and neck were left completely disfigured during a house fire.
Patrick’s life was a great one up until the day the tragedy struck in 2001.
He worked as a volunteer firefighter earlier in his life, so when he got called to help with a house fire, he didn’t hesitate. Sadly, once he entered the burning place, it collapsed on top of him and trapped him. He couldn’t move and his torso and face were severely burnt.
“[My mask] was melting to my face,” Patrick recalled. “My hose [was] already melted.”
“For somebody who does what we do for a living, I’ve never seen anybody burned that bad that was still alive,” friend and first responder Jimmy Neal told CBS News of seeing Patrick after the accident.
Patrick suffered third degree burns on his face and scalp. He also sustained burns to his head, neck, and upper torso. The fire also claimed his ears, lips, most of his nose, and even most of his eyelid tissue.
“I didn’t actually see myself until probably November. I got injured in September,” Patrick told Fox News. “They had cut a little pinhole in one of my eyelids because they had everything covered, skin graft. I looked in the mirror and all I could do, I said, ‘this is it? I can’t do this,’” he recalled.
Over the years, this man was forced to undergo over 70 surgeries, as well as other procedures. He couldn’t close his eyes and doctors were able to put together flaps of skin to protect his vision, but he was still facing the risk of going blind.
Patrick couldn’t eat without feeling excruciating pain. He just couldn’t get used to this life because he couldn’t look at himself in the mirror. Wherever he went, everyone starred at him, and he could barely stand being around people, even his children.
In order to hide and protect himself, Patrick wore sunglasses and a baseball cap all the time. He also had ear prosthetic.
“I had kids. It was just a tough time. I never got a day off from the injury. When you walk out in public, it was daily. And, you know, it’s just so — there’s no way to explain everything,” he told Yahoo! Sports.
“You go to the ball field, you have to prepare yourself for the kid that goes running off screaming.”
Years went by and Patrick lost hope of ever having a normal life. But then, French woman named Isabelle Dinoire received a partial face transplant after her face was severely disfigured by her pet dog. This procedure was revolutionary. It was the first ever of that kind. Surely, it gave a glimpse of hope to Patrick who at that point was truly struggling.
Patrick met doctor Eduardo D. Rodriguez from the NYU Langone Medical Center in New York who told him he would do the transplant surgery if they find a matching donor. It wasn’t easy, but one day, out of the blue, a donor appeared. LiveOnNY, a nonprofit that coordinates organ donations in the New York area, had found a match. The face Patrick was about to get belonged to 26-year-old David Rodebaugh who had sustained a massive head injury in a bike accident and had been declared brain dead.
This young man’s mother, Nancy Millar, decided to donate her son’s organs, including his face. “I said, ‘You better save his face. He has the face of a porcelain doll.’ And he’s a donor — we had talked about it,” Millar told People.
The thought of someone receiving her son’s face meant that David would continue to live on through the people whose lives he was about to save, including Patrick’s.
“When I met Patrick, I saw this strength, this strong, manly, burly kind of energy in him — that David had,” Nancy recalled.
“David wanted to be a firefighter, an I knew if this guy was a firefighter — he was willing to walk into a fire to save people and risk his own life — then he had the strength that David had.”
Finally, the day of the transplant surgery had arrived. The procedure lasted for 26 long hours and was performed by a team of 100 professionals.
The risk was enormous and Patrick was given a 50/50 percent chance of survival. Luckily, it was a huge success. Patrick received a new face, scalp, ears, and ear canals. He also received eyelids which allowed him to blink naturally and save his vision.
“Everything in life has a risk,” Patrick told Time Magazine.
“When it’s your time to go, you’ll go—whether you’re walking down the street and get hit by a car or you’re lying on the operating table.”
After he recovered from the swelling and he learned how to talk and swallow again, Patrick met his donor’s mother. Nancy only had one request, to kiss Patrick on the forehead.
“I said, ‘Can I kiss your forehead?’” Nancy said. “That’s the one thing I wanted to do because every night before David went to bed when he was little, I kissed his forehead.”
“I’ve been waiting a year to meet her. I’m just very grateful,” Patrick added. “Without her, it wouldn’t have been possible. It’s like she’s family. We connected that easily.”
Ever since the surgery, Patrick is taking anti-rejection drugs that prevent his immune system from rejecting the face, but he’s thriving. He didn’t only receive a new face but a new life too.
Today, he is divorced and is working on a book which he hopes would serve as an inspiration to anyone who believes there is no way out from the situation they have found themselves in. “Because I want to show the world that you can have hope. I wouldn’t want people that were like me years ago to think that’s it, I have to live like this. You don’t. You can accomplish anything,” Patrick says.
His survival and his recovery are dubbed miraculous. Thanks to Nancy, Dr. Rodriguez and his team, and Patrick’s strong will, today, he is a happy man.
Entitled Guard Denied My Wife Entry to the Movie Theater – I Returned Days Later for Payback
When Grace, retired and full of life, was humiliated at the local movie theater, her husband Tom decided to take a stand. Armed with a recording and a determination to protect his wife’s dignity, Tom confronted the guard from their past, setting off a chain of events that neither of them expected.
Grace and I have been married for over 40 years. We grew up and have lived our entire lives in a little postcard town where everyone is like a big family. Running into your classmates at the grocery store or seeing your former teacher at the dentist is a usual occurrence.
Tom and Grace on a walk | Source: Midjourney
I’m still working as an engineer, while Grace enjoys her retirement. We’ve raised three wonderful children and now have five adorable grandchildren. Our days are filled with laughter and love, spending time with our family, gardening, and taking long walks together.
Grace has always loved movies. Since retiring, she’s been watching more than ever. She gets so excited about new releases, and it’s a joy to see her passion.
Grace in a movie theater | Source: Midjourney
One day, Grace was thrilled about a new movie. She had been talking about it for weeks. The day finally came, and she was all set to go. She picked out a nice outfit and even put on a bit of makeup. She left the house with a smile, eager for a relaxing evening.
At the theater, she approached the entrance with her ticket in hand. But just as she was about to walk in, the guard stopped her.
“You can’t come in. This movie isn’t for people like you,” he said, without any explanation. Grace was stunned. She didn’t know what to say. She felt humiliated and bewildered.
Guard forbids Grace to enter | Source: Midjourney
When she got home, she was in tears. “I don’t understand, they wouldn’t let me in,” she said, her voice trembling.
Seeing her like that broke my heart. “What do you mean they wouldn’t let you in?” I asked, trying to stay calm.
“The guard said the movie wasn’t for people like me,” she replied, wiping her tears. “He wouldn’t explain why.”
Tom comforts Grace | Source: Midjourney
My sadness quickly turned to anger. “No one has the right to treat you like that,” I said firmly. “I’m going to make sure he regrets it.”
I started thinking about who this guard could be. Grace hadn’t recognized him, but something in her description rang a bell. Then it hit me – Matt, from high school.
Tom picks a fight with Matt in high school | Source: Midjourney
He had asked Grace out once, and she had politely declined. He had been a bit of a troublemaker back then. Could he still be holding a grudge after all these years?
I decided to confront him. A few days later, I went to the theater, making sure he was there. I approached him, trying to keep my cool. “Hi there,” I said casually. “Nice evening for a movie, isn’t it?”
Tom approaches the movie theater | Source: Midjourney
Tom records his conversation with Matt | Source: Midjourney
His face turned pale. “I… I didn’t mean to kick her out…”
I cut him off. “Save it. I’ve got your confession on tape. I’ll be talking to your manager about this.”
He started to stammer, trying to apologize, but it was too late. I walked away, determined to see this through. Grace deserved better, and I wasn’t going to let anyone get away with treating her like that.
Tom calls the manager | Source: Midjourney
As soon as I left the theater, I knew I had to act quickly. Grace deserved justice. I went home and played the recording again to make sure I had everything. Matt’s admission was clear. There was no doubt about what he had done.
The next morning, I called the theater’s management. “Hello, my name is Tom. I need to report an incident involving one of your employees.”
The manager, a woman named Sarah, sounded concerned. “What happened, sir?”
Manager talks to Tom | Source: Midjourney
I explained everything, from Grace’s excitement about the movie to the humiliating encounter with Matt. “I have a recording of Matt admitting he refused her entry because of an old grudge,” I added.
“Could you send us the recording?” she asked.
“Of course,” I replied. I emailed it to her right away. Within an hour, I received a call back.
Tom waits for justice | Source: Midjourney
“Mr. Tom, we’ve listened to the recording, and we are deeply sorry for what happened to your wife. This behavior is completely unacceptable. Rest assured, we are taking immediate action.”
The next day, I got another call from Sarah. “Mr. Tom, I wanted to let you know that Matt has been dismissed from his position. We apologize for the distress this caused you and your wife. As a gesture of goodwill, we’d like to offer you both complimentary tickets to any movie of your choice.”
Happy Grace with free movie tickets | Source: Midjourney
I thanked her and shared the news with Grace. She looked relieved but still a bit shaken. “I can’t believe he held onto that grudge for so long,” she said softly.
“A lot of people can’t let go of the past,” I replied, hugging her. “But it’s over now. Let’s go enjoy that movie.”
A few days later, we returned to the theater. This time, a young, courteous guard greeted us with a warm smile. “Good evening, folks! Enjoy the movie!” he said cheerfully.
Tom and Grace at the movies | Source: Midjourney
We found our seats and settled in. As the lights dimmed and the movie began, I glanced over at Grace. She was smiling, fully immersed in the film. I reached over and held her hand. We had faced an ugly moment, but we stood up to it together.
After the movie, we walked out of the theater hand in hand. The night air was cool and refreshing. “That was a good movie,” Grace said, her eyes twinkling.
Tom strolls with Grace | Source: Midjourney
“It was,” I agreed. “But the best part was seeing you happy.”
Grace squeezed my hand. “Thank you for standing up for me,” she said. “I don’t know what I would have done without you.”
Grace and Tom together | Source: Midjourney
“You never have to find out,” I replied. “We’re a team, remember?”
We walked to our car, both feeling a sense of closure. Justice had been served, and the past was finally behind us.
Our Kids Accused Us of Spending Their Inheritance — The Audacity Shocked Us So Deeply We Decided to Teach Them a Lesson
When our kids accused us of spending their inheritance, we were stunned. But instead of getting angry, we decided to teach them an important lesson about life and money.
A pile of one dollar bills | Source: Pexels
My husband, Tom, and I have always prided ourselves on living a modest, yet fulfilling life. We worked hard, saved diligently, and now, in our golden years, we wanted to enjoy the fruits of our labor. Our doctor recently recommended that we take a little trip out of state for a vacation. It was a much-needed break for both of us. I planned a getaway to a cozy, inexpensive hotel by the beach.
A tented hotel room near the ocean | Source: Pexels
As soon as the reservations were confirmed, I couldn’t wait to share the happy news with our kids, Emma and Jake. I expected them to be happy for us, maybe even a little envious of our upcoming adventure. But their reaction left me utterly shocked.
A shocked senior woman | Source: Pexels
I showed Emma and Jake a picture of our cozy little hotel. Emma glanced at it and sighed.
“You know, you should think about us too,” she said. “Your money isn’t just yours; it’s also our inheritance. If you spend it all now, we’ll have nothing after you’re gone.”
Jake nodded in agreement. “Yeah, do you really need that vacation? People your age should stay home and keep it low-key. Why are you always spending money and doing things? Sometimes I feel like there’ll be nothing left for us.”
I felt tears welling up, but Tom squeezed my hand and shook his head. That’s when I knew he had a plan to handle this.
An upset senior woman being comforted by her husband | Source: Pexels
Later that evening, Tom and I sat down to talk about what happened. I was still hurt by what the kids had said, but Tom was calm and thoughtful.
“They think our money is already theirs,” Tom said. “We need to teach them a lesson.”
An angry senior man | Source: Pexels
We came up with a plan. Instead of just arguing with them, we decided to show them that our money was ours to use as we saw fit. We wrote letters to Emma and Jake, explaining that we were going to donate a big part of our savings to charities we cared about. We wanted to help make the world a better place rather than just leave money sitting in a bank.
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