Being a parent to a cocky, disrespectful teenager is far from easy, and different parents have different approaches to get their children to behave.
One mom, Heidi Johnson, wrote a handwritten letter to her son, Aaron, and shared it on Facebook. She didn’t intend for the post to go viral. She didn’t even intend to make the post public. It was supposed to just be for friends to see, but she does not regret her post or the fact that it’s public.
In the letter to her 13-year-old son, Johnson reprimanded her son treating her like a “roommate.” She went on to give him an itemized bill for rent, food, etc that totaled over $700. If he was going to treat her like a roommate instead of his mom, she would do the same.
Johnson signed the note, “Love Mom,” and she truly does love her son. She followed up the post with another post explaining some backstory to the situation. She also reassured parents who were criticizing her that “I am not going to put my 13 year old on the street if he can’t pay his half of the rent. I am not wanting him to pay anything. I want him to take pride in his home, his space, and appreciate the gifts and blessings we have.”
She added that she never intended for Aaron to pay the bill. Instead, she wanted him to “gain an appreciation of what things cost.” The reason Johnson wrote the note was to make sure her son understood “what life would look like if I was not his ‘parent,’ but rather a ‘roommate.’ It was a lesson about gratitude and respect from the very beginning.”
Johnson also explained that before she wrote the note, her son had lied about doing his homework, and when she told him she was going to restrict his internet access, he responded, “Well, I am making money now.” She explained that the money he was referring to was a little bit of income he was making from his YouTube channel, but not nearly enough to pay for food and rent.
The public note has not hurt Johnson’s relationship with her son. She explained, “He and I still talk as openly as ever. He has apologized multiple times.”
Johnson has also had parents turning to her for advice since she posted the note to her son. She explains, “My post seems to have opened a door, and people feel safe coming to me and asking for advice, venting, or even just have someone bear witness to their experience by listening and opening up and sharing a piece of myself in return.”
Jennifer Love Hewitt deftly defends herself against critics who called her “unrecognizable” in recent photos
Jennifer Love Hewitt received a wave of comments on her social media after a recent video sparked rumors of possible plastic surgery. The 44-year-old actress responded to the criticism in an unexpected and refreshing way, further impressing her followers.
The craze started when the “Ghost Whisperer” star’s hairstylist @nikkilee901 posted a video on Instagram showing off a dramatic hair transformation. In the clip, Jennifer was seen sporting a chic bob with stylish curtain bangs and a rich mahogany brown color.
The hairstylist captioned the post, “Spiced things up a bit,” accompanied by a red chili pepper emoji. While many fans applauded Jennifer’s new look with comments like, “You look amazing Jennifer!” and “I’ve been a fan since I was a teenager!”, some critics speculated that she had undergone plastic surgery, suggesting that she had undergone an eyebrow lift or other procedures, and claimed she looked completely different.
In response, Jennifer Love Hewitt took to her Instagram stories on Sunday to respond to the remarks with her trademark wit. She addressed her critics directly, saying, “A lot of people say I look different,” adding, “I look the same as I always do. I’m very natural. I woke up like this. Filters don’t change you that much.”
Her reaction was all the more striking because the videos she shared used different filters, making her appearance look quite different. Along with her playful response, she delivered a thoughtful message: “Let people choose whether they want to be filtered or unfiltered. Be kind. Spread love.”
Jennifer’s heartfelt message and candid approach resonates with many, and her openness about aging, especially as she celebrated her 44th birthday this year, has made her even more relatable. We admire her for championing kindness and transparency in the face of online scrutiny.
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