In 2010, Sandra Bullock received a phone call that changed her life forever. “Your placement is here,” said the voice on the other end.
A few weeks later, she was on a stage, accepting her first Oscar for her appearance in The Blind Side, but she didn’t care she was there. “All I wanted was to go was just go home and feed Lou” she said of her newborn, whom she had been waiting for years to arrive.
Keep reading to learn more about this incredible actor and what inspired her to adopt two children!
In 2005, after Hurricane Katrina devastated Louisiana by flooding its grounds, Sandra Bullock had a feeling that inspired her decision to adopt a child.
“Katrina happened in New Orleans, and something told me, ‘My child is there.’ It was weird,” Bullock said in an interview with Today’s Hoda Kotb.
Years later, in January 2010, Bullock received the call she had been waiting years to receive.
Years later, in January 2010, Bullock received the call she had been waiting years to receive.
“He was unexpected, he was not planned. I got a call one day, ‘Your placement is here,’ and that’s after years after having filed it, years,” the 59-year-old star of Speed tells CBS News.
Little Lou
Gushing over Louis Bardo Bullock, the three-month-old boy from New Orleans she secretly adopted in 2010, Bullock said, “I looked at him like, ‘Oh, there you are.’ It was like he had always been there,” she recalled. “He fit in the crook of my arm. He looked me in the eyes. He was wise. My child was wise.”
The Miss Congeniality star adds, “The beautiful thing that I was constantly told was, ‘The perfect child will find you. You will find your child.’ But you don’t believe that when it’s not happening. When you’re going, ‘Where is my family?’ When it does happen, you know exactly what they’re talking about.”
Weeks after Lou arrived, Bullock was on stage at the Kodiak Theatre, accepting her first Oscar for her starring role in the film, The Blind Side.
But Lou owned her center stage and she wanted to be at home, with him.
“All I kept thinking about was, ‘He’s at home.’ Like, I didn’t care. I didn’t care that I was there, I just wanted to go home. And then I was sewn in the dress. I was sewn in the dress, and I had to get myself out of the dress, but all I wanted to do was just go home and feed Lou.”
Only days after, her marriage to reality star Jesse James came crashing down and Bullock became a single mother to an infant.
Bullock said, “I mean, so much had happened. How do you process grief and not hurt your child in the process? It’s a newborn, they take on everything that you’re feeling. So, my obligation was to [Lou] and not tainting the first year of his life with my grief.”
‘Louis’ got the stage’
“No one understands the shift in priorities about having a child in your life … until you have a child in your life,” Bullock said of shifting her focus from career to mom. “It naturally shifts…he showed up and now, Louis’ got the stage.”
Growing up in a healthy, happy environment, little Lou one day looked up at mom and predicted “I’m going to have a baby soon.”
Though Bullock admits she wasn’t planning on growing her family, she listened to her son, who planted the seed.
“I realized at that time, maybe he knew something. And when I think about it, it would have been around the time that Laila was born,” Bullock said. “It’s Louis’ way. Louis has a very strong way. He’s a fine leader, and he led me to Lai.”
Laila, who was living in foster care in Louisiana, is her daughter who joined the family in 2015 when she was three.
Recalling Laila’s trauma from being in childcare, the Ocean’s 8 star said, “She’d be in the closet with all her clothes on, she’d be on a bookshelf, she’d be hiding, she’d always be ready to leave,” the actress recalled of her daughter, adding that she always made sure Laila knew that she wasn’t “going anywhere.”
She then shared a conversation she had about Laila with Bryan Randall, the father figure to her children, and her partner from 2015 until ALS claimed his life in 2023. She said, “My partner said to me, ‘When she’s been with us longer than she hasn’t been, I have a feeling we’re going to see a change.’”
He was right. Recently, Bullock described Laila as “unafraid.”
“She’s a fighter, and that’s the reason she’s here today. She fought to keep her spirit intact. Oh my God, what she is going to accomplish. She’s going to bring some real change.”
Lou, now 13, “is super sensitive…He’s wise and kind,” the Bird Box star tells People. “I saw that when they handed him to me. There was a spiritual bigness to him.”
Though fans will be disappointed, the versatile actor is scaling back her work schedule to again be a single mother.
Bullock last appeared in 2022’s The Lost City with Channing Tatum and Bullet Train with Brad Pitt.
“I can be creative, I can be part of a community, but right now, work in front of the camera needs to take a pause,” she said.
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9 Powerful Natural Solutions for Dry and Flaky Skin
Dry, flaky skin can result from various factors, including genetics and aging, which naturally predispose some individuals to this condition. If left untreated, dry skin can crack, increasing the risk of infections. Fortunately, there are many remedies and lifestyle adjustments to help restore and maintain hydrated, healthy skin.
Shower Smarter
Frequent washing can strip the skin of its natural oils, making it more prone to dryness. To lock in moisture and protect your skin:
- Use lukewarm water: Avoid hot water, which can exacerbate dryness.
- Pat dry gently: Use a towel to pat your skin dry instead of rubbing.
- Moisturize immediately: Apply moisturizer while your skin is still damp to seal in hydration.
- Shave wisely: Always use shaving gel and a sharp razor to reduce irritation.
Combat Winter Dryness
Winter weather is particularly harsh on the skin due to cold air and frequent handwashing. To minimize its effects:
- Wear gloves: Protect your hands outdoors and while performing tasks like dishwashing.
- Use a humidifier: Adding moisture to indoor air can prevent dryness, as recommended by dermatologists.
Natural Remedies for Dry Skin
1. Olive Oil
Extra-virgin olive oil is rich in vitamin E and antioxidants, making it effective for repairing dry skin. Apply sparingly to dry areas such as elbows or mix it with a face mask for added hydration. Avoid overuse, as it may weaken the skin barrier.
2. Oatmeal Baths
Adding a cup of oatmeal to warm bathwater can hydrate and soothe irritated skin. This remedy also alleviates itchiness and discomfort caused by dryness.
3. Coconut Oil
Coconut oil works as a natural moisturizing cream. Apply it to chapped hands, feet, or heels before bed for intense hydration. For better results, wear gloves or socks after application.
4. Milk Compress
Milk contains lactic acid and anti-inflammatory properties that can soothe and gently exfoliate dry skin. Soak a clean washcloth in cool milk and apply it to affected areas for 5–10 minutes. Avoid this method on cracked skin.
5. Aloe Vera
Aloe vera is known for reducing redness, irritation, and dryness. Its mucopolysaccharides, similar to hyaluronic acid, help retain moisture. Perform a patch test before applying it to larger areas of skin.
6. Honey
Honey is a natural humectant with healing and anti-inflammatory properties. Use it as a spot treatment for rough patches or include it in homemade face masks. Consult a dermatologist before using honey to treat specific skin conditions.
7. Petroleum Jelly
Products like Vaseline or Aquaphor create a protective barrier to lock in moisture and prevent chafing. Petroleum jelly is suitable for sensitive areas like eyelids and lips but should be avoided on acne-prone areas.
Choosing the Right Products
When selecting skincare products, opt for ointments or creams instead of lotions for better hydration. Look for these key features:
- Fragrance-Free: Choose products labeled as “fragrance-free” rather than “unscented,” which may still contain irritants.
- Hydrating Ingredients: Seek out components like ceramides, glycerin, and hyaluronic acid for effective moisture retention.
When to Consult a Doctor
If dryness persists despite home remedies, it may signal an underlying skin condition. Consult a dermatologist for professional care or prescription treatments tailored to your needs.
By following these tips and incorporating natural remedies, you can effectively manage dry, flaky skin and maintain a healthy, glowing complexion.
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