When Elliot Costello and a group of other people visited Cambodia, he had an encounter with a young girl named Thea.
Little did Elliot know that this encounter would have an impact so profound on him that it would help start a movement whose goal is to end sexual abuse against children.
Namely, Thea always had nail polish on her tiny nails. One day, as she and Elliot chatted, she asked to paint one of his nails. He agreed and was happy to speak to the chatty girl, but he then learned that she was once a victim of sexual abuse.
“As she painted one of my nails, I assured her I would always keep it that way to remember her, and by extension, her suffering,” Elliot said.
This motivated Elliot to try and make positive change among men so that less and less children fall victims of sexual abuse.
That is when he came up with the movement called #PolishedMan where men put nail polish on one of their nails. That one nail represents the one in five children who will be victims of sexual violence.
Polished Man works towards ending sexual violence against children. According to the organization, “being a Polished Man means challenging violent behavior and language, both locally and globally.”
Elliot believes that since men are responsible for 96% of this type of violence against children globally, they should be catalyst for change if we are ever to see an end to the abuse of innocent children.
The goal with the painted nail isn’t just to remind people of the number of children who are abused every single day, but to serve as a conversation starter about this reality, leading to new ideas about prevention. He also hopes that people will start donating to “support educational programs and resources for child survivors of abuse,” as per APlus.
We hope that more men, including celebrities
78-year-old Susan Sarandon faces criticism over her fashion choices but delivers an ideal reply to her detractors
Susan Sarandon, a celebrated figure in cinema, stands as a symbol of authenticity and self-expression. With a career that spans several decades, she has mesmerized audiences not only with her acting skills but also with her unwavering commitment to living her truth, both in front of and behind the camera.
From her unforgettable performance in “The Rocky Horror Picture Show” to her Academy Award-winning role in “Dead Man Walking”, Sarandon has made a profound impact on the film industry. Yet, what truly distinguishes her is her fearless embrace of individuality.
In an industry often constricted by rigid standards of beauty and conformity, Sarandon boldly defies these limitations. Recently, when critics criticized her fashion sense as “inappropriate”, she chose a powerful, non-verbal response. Rather than engage in a debate, she shared a striking image of herself confidently showcasing her body in just her underwear, effectively sending a message that she sets her own standards.
Sarandon’s boldness transcends fashion. Now at 78, she embraces the aging process with grace, valuing the moments of life and dismissing societal pressures. Her recipe for maintaining vitality includes a healthy dose of laughter, regular physical activity, nutritious meals, and, naturally, a talented team for her beauty needs.
Beneath her glamorous exterior and numerous accolades lies a woman who forges her own path. Surrounding herself with those who share her zest for life and adventurous spirit, Sarandon refuses to dwell on trivial matters.
In a society that often tries to stifle individuality, Susan Sarandon exemplifies the power of confidence and tenacity. She inspires us to embrace our true selves and pursue our own journeys, regardless of the opinions of others.
As we celebrate Sarandon’s indomitable spirit, let us also learn from her example: choose authenticity over conformity and dare to be unapologetically ourselves. In a world that frequently seeks to suppress uniqueness, Sarandon’s message resonates loudly: be courageous, be bold, and most importantly, stay true to who you are.
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