Elliot Costello’s life was drastically altered in a way he never would have imagined in 2013 after traveling to an orphanage in Cambodia.
He was unaware, though, that a meeting would occur that would alter thousands of other people’s lives as well.
It all began in 2013 when Australian social entrepreneur Elliot Costello got to know a young child named Thea.
The 10-year-old girl, Thea, had been saved from a horrible situation, but regrettably, she had wound up in an orphanage. She had been sexually and physically abused for two years, and the torture had a lasting effect. Regretfully, if Elliot hadn’t existed, we might never have learned about this courageous young girl.
However, let’s start at the beginning.
Thea’s life was happy once she was born. The Cambodian girl was loved and cared for by her mother, father, and other family members just like any other child. Unfortunately, fate had other ideas for her. Her father unexpectedly passed away one day, and his loss was tragic in many ways. Not only had it been a painful and emotional experience, but Thea’s father had been the only provider for the family. The family was left in dire straits after his death.
When things became so awful for Thea, her mother had to make the painful choice to place her daughter in an orphanage since she was no longer able to care for her. Sadly, the little girl would end up spending a miserable life there.
The director of the orphanage allegedly sexually and physically abused Thea every day for two years, according to Polished Man.
Thea was eventually moved to another Hagar International-run orphanage in Phnom Penh. Australian social entrepreneur Elliot Costello became close to the boy during a visit there by playing games of naughts and crosses. The 10-year-old child, in spite of everything she had experienced, exuded happiness and optimism.
Thea used to constantly have nail polish on her tiny nails, so one day she wanted to paint Elliot’s. They had a great time together as they sat and chatted.
“I promised her that I would always remember her and her suffering,” Elliot remarked as she painted one of his nails
Elliot was inspired to try and modify men’s behavior after meeting with Thea in order to reduce the number of children who experience sexual abuse. In order to demonstrate support, he also came up with the idea to launch a trend where males paint their nails.
Another symbolic interpretation of painting one nail is that it stands for the one in five children who may experience sexual abuse. It is immediately clear from looking at the numbers that we must put in a lot of effort to solve this problem.
Nearly 70% of all reported sexual assaults involve minors who are 17 years of age or younger, according to the YMCA. Unbelievably, one in six boys and one in four girls will experience sexual abuse before they become 18 years old.
Elliot believes that since men account for over 90% of this kind of abuse against children, they should be the ones to drive change. In light of this, a large number of international superstars have joined the nail painting craze.
Polished Man is still working to provide a better, safer environment for children today. Their principal goal is to stop child sexual abuse. “Being a Polished Man means challenging violent behavior and language, both locally and globally,” the organization states.
Chris Hemsworth is one well-known person who has taken a strong stance; he posed for the organization with a painted nail.
It takes more than just remembering to purchase flowers, shouting rounds, or lifting a lot to be a @PolishedMan. Saying no to violence against children is the main goal, according to Hemsworth.
Famous surfers Kelly Slater and Zac Efron also participated in the social media challenge, and maybe more people will openly speak out against child abuse.
Although the campaign began quietly a few years prior, by 2014 it had drawn the interest of numerous prominent media outlets.
The organization has persevered in its hard work and has now existed for a decade. Polished Man claims that $8.7 million has been raised to fund trauma prevention and recovery initiatives for women and children who have experienced or are at danger of experiencing violence in Australia and other
My Grandson Didn’t Speak Until He Was 5 Years Old – His First Words Shattered Our World
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Danny never spoke a word until his fifth birthday, when he uttered a chilling confession, “Mommy has a secret.” As his grandmother, I’d always known there was more to Danny, but nothing could’ve prepared us for the truth his first words would reveal — or the chaos they’d unleash.
There’s something special about Danny. I’ve known it from the moment I first held him in my arms, long before the doctors had their say.
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See, Danny is five and doesn’t speak. The doctors say his development is delayed like it’s a simple thing, but I’m his grandmother, and I can feel it in my bones: Danny is different. Not broken, not wrong, just… different.
I look around the living room, brightly decorated for Danny’s fifth birthday. Despite all this, Danny is sitting in his usual spot by the window, tracing the lines of the carpet with his fingers.
I can’t help but smile. That’s just Danny in his own little world.
A boy examining a carpet | Source: Midjourney
Louise, my daughter, is fussing over the cake. She’s been more distant lately but wears her motherly face well. Her husband, Albert, is on his phone in the corner, probably answering work emails.
Albert loves his family. I know that much, but sometimes love isn’t enough when you’re stretched too thin.
I sip my tea, keeping my eye on Danny. Just as I’m about to look away, he stands up and marches toward me. His small hands clutch the sides of my chair, and for the first time in his five years of life, Danny lifts his eyes to meet mine.
Close up of a boy’s face | Source: Midjourney
“Grandma,” he says softly. My heart stops. “I need to tell you something about Mommy.”
The room goes silent. Every head turns. Louise, pale as a sheet, drops the knife she was using to cut the cake. It clatters to the floor, but no one moves to pick it up.
I smile down at him, even though my hands are trembling. “What is it, sweetheart? What do you need to tell me?”
Danny’s voice is calm, almost too calm for a child his age. “Mommy has a secret.”
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Louise steps forward, her face tight with fear. “Danny,” she stammers, “why don’t you go play with your toys? We’ll talk later.”
But Danny doesn’t budge. His eyes never leave mine. “She’s not going to be around anymore,” he says, his tone matter-of-fact, like he’s discussing the weather.
The air in the room turns cold, suffocating. I swallow hard, my voice barely a whisper. “What do you mean, Danny?”
A shocked and concerned woman | Source: Midjourney
He looks at me, his face expressionless, and repeats himself. “Mommy’s leaving. She told someone on the phone.”
The words hit like a punch to the gut. Louise’s hands fly to her mouth, and Albert finally looks up from his phone, confusion twisting his features.
“Danny, that’s enough!” Louise’s voice cracks. She moves towards him, but I hold up a hand, stopping her in her tracks.
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“No, let him finish.” My voice is steady, though inside, I’m unraveling.
Danny blinks, unaware of the chaos he’s caused. “I heard her tell the man on the phone,” he says. “She said she didn’t love Daddy anymore and something’s wrong with me. She said she wants to run away from both of us.”
Louise lets out a sob, crumbling where she stands. Albert, still in shock, stares at her as if seeing her for the first time. The room is spinning, the once joyful decorations now mocking us with their false cheer.
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Albert’s face is a mask of disbelief, but the hurt is starting to creep in. “Louise,” he whispers, his voice trembling, “is this true?”
Louise shakes her head, tears streaming down her face. “No, no, it’s not like that, Albert. He doesn’t understand. He… he must’ve misheard.”
She stumbles over her words, reaching out towards him, but Albert takes a step back, his eyes narrowing.
A couple having an emotional conversation | Source: Midjourney
“Misheard?” His voice rises, echoing off the walls. “He just said you told someone on the phone you didn’t love me anymore. That you wanted to run away from us! How do you mishear something like that, Louise?”
“I was upset,” she stammers. “I said things I didn’t mean, Albert. You’ve been so distant, and I felt lost.”
Danny, standing beside me, watches his parents with that same detached calm as if he’s not the one who dropped the bomb that’s now tearing them apart.
A calm boy | Source: Midjourney
I can’t take it anymore. I pull Danny into my arms, holding him close.
“It’s okay, baby. It’s okay,” I whisper, though I know nothing about this is okay.
Albert turns to Louise, his voice low and cold. “Who was the man, Louise? Who were you talking to?”
She opens her mouth to speak, but no words come out. Her silence says everything.
A speechless woman | Source: Midjourney
He nods slowly, the realization sinking in. “So it’s true. You’re leaving. You don’t love me anymore.”
Louise collapses into a chair, her body shaking with sobs. “I don’t know what I’m doing,” she cries. “I’m lost, Albert. I don’t know who I am anymore.”
The room is thick with tension, every breath heavy. I keep Danny close, shielding him from the worst, but I know he’s absorbing every word. He’s always been more perceptive than anyone realized.
A woman holding her grandson close | Source: Midjourney
Albert’s voice is softer now but no less pained. “And what about Danny?” he asks. “You were going to leave him too? You said there’s something wrong with him?”
Louise shakes her head violently, her hands trembling as she grips the edge of the table. “No, no, I didn’t mean it like that. I love him, Albert. But it’s so hard. He never talks, never looks at me, and sometimes I don’t know how to reach him. I feel like I’m failing him.”
Her confession hangs in the air, raw and exposed. For a moment, there’s only silence.
A woman hanging her head | Source: Midjourney
Albert looks at her, his anger slowly giving way to something sadder, something more broken.
“I’m going to take Danny upstairs,” I say quietly, sensing that this is a conversation they need to have without an audience.
Danny doesn’t protest as I guide him towards the stairs. He walks beside me, calm as ever, his little hand slipping into mine.
A boy walking down a corridor | Source: Midjourney
The days after Danny’s birthday feel like the aftermath of a storm. The air is heavy with the weight of everything said, and nothing feels the same.
Louise tries to explain things to me when Danny’s asleep. She tells me she’s been feeling trapped for years, that she never wanted to be a mother in the first place but did it because it was what Albert wanted.
“I don’t know how to be Danny’s mother,” she confesses one night, her voice small. “I’ve tried, Mom. I really have. But I just… I don’t feel it.”
A woman speaking with her daughter | Source: Midjourney
I don’t know what to say. How do you comfort your daughter when she tells you she’s failing her child? How do you forgive her for wanting to run away? I can’t. Not yet. Maybe not ever.
Albert, on the other hand, has moved swiftly. He’s filed for divorce, his heart too wounded to even try to mend what’s broken between them. I sit with him one evening after Danny has fallen asleep, the silence between us heavy.
“I don’t know what to do, Brenda,” he says, his voice rough with exhaustion. “I thought I knew her. I thought we were in this together. But now… I don’t even know who she is anymore.”
A sad man | Source: Midjourney
I reach for his hand, squeezing it gently. “You didn’t do anything wrong, Albert. Sometimes people just… drift apart. And sometimes they break.” I swallow, trying to find the right words. “But you still have Danny. And he needs you. More than ever.”
Albert nods, though his eyes are far away. “He’s been talking more,” he says suddenly. “Not much, but sometimes. It’s like… he was waiting for something.”
I pause, letting his words sink in. “Maybe he was.”
A thoughtful woman | Source: Midjourney
It’s been months since the divorce was finalized. Danny has started to speak more often, though his words are still few and far between. He prefers to observe and take everything in before sharing what’s on his mind.
I’ve learned not to push him. He’ll talk when he’s ready.
One evening, I tuck him into bed, his small body curling into the blankets.
“Grandma,” he says softly, his voice still carrying that calm that unnerves me sometimes. “Do you know why I didn’t talk for so long?”
A young boy | Source: Midjourney
I blink, taken aback by the question. “Why, baby?”
He looks down, picking at the corner of his blanket. “I was waiting for the right time.”
My heart clenches. “The right time for what?”
“To tell the truth,” he says simply.
A young boy in bed | Source: Midjourney
I sit there, staring at him, my mind spinning. He’s only five, yet sometimes I feel like he sees more than all of us combined.
I lean down, pressing a kiss to his forehead. “Thank you for telling me the truth, Danny.”
He doesn’t say anything else but turns over in bed, ready to sleep. I sit there for a long time after, watching him. His quietness is not a burden, I realize now. It’s his strength. His way of understanding the world. And, in a way, it’s brought us all closer to the truth.
A thoughtful woman | Source: Midjourney
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