Mary Lou Retton Has Pneumonia and ‘Is Fighting for Her Life,’ Daughter Says

The gymnastics champion sprang to stardom at the 1984 Olympics, where she became the first American woman to win a gold medal in the all-around competition. Her family is raising money online, saying she lacks health insurance.

Mary Lou Retton raises her hands and smiles while competing in 1984.

May Lou Retton at the 1984 Olympics, where she won five medals.

Mary Lou Retton, who became one of the most popular athletes in the country after winning the all-around women’s gymnastics competition at the 1984 Summer Olympics in Los Angeles, has pneumonia and is “fighting for her life” in the intensive care unit, her daughter said in a statement this week.

Retton’s daughter McKenna Lane Kelley said on Instagram that her mother “is not able to breathe on her own” and that she had been in the intensive care unit for more than a week.

Kelley asked for donations to help pay for her mother’s hospital bills, saying her mother lacked health insurance. By Wednesday, she had raised more than $260,000 online from more than 4,600 donors.

She did not share more specific information about her mother’s condition, though she said that her pneumonia was “a very rare form.” It was not clear what hospital Retton was in.

Kelley, who was a gymnast at Louisiana State University, did not immediately respond to a message seeking comment on Tuesday.

On Wednesday, another daughter, Shayla Kelley Schrepfer, released a video on Instagram thanking people for “all the love and support that you’ve given to my mom.”

“She’s still fighting,” Schrepfer said. “It’s going to be a day-by-day process, and we hope that you guys will respect her boundaries, as we want to keep the details between her and our family right now. She has been treated with the best of the best professionals here, and it has been such a blessing to have their hands on her.”

At the 1984 Olympics, Retton became the first American woman to win the all-around gold medal or any individual Olympic medal in gymnastics. Going into the final rotation of the competition, she was five-hundredths of a point behind Romania’s Ecaterina Szabo, and the only way she could beat Szabo was to score a perfect 10 on vault.

Retton scored a perfect 10.

She won five medals in Los Angeles, including two silvers, for team and vault, and two bronzes, for uneven bars and floor exercise.

A closeup of Mary Lou Retton, smiling.
Mary Lou Retton in 2009.Credit…Jonathan Daniel/Getty Images

Though there was an asterisk by Retton’s victory in the history books — the Soviet Union, which was the most dominant force in women’s gymnastics at the time, boycotted the 1984 Games — it nonetheless made her a sports hero in the United States. In addition to earning her the traditional trappings of Olympic gold, like appearing on a Wheaties box, she was widely viewed as an inspiration to a new generation of American girls entering gymnastics.

Even as the American gymnastics program grew and the country won more medals, including the team gold in 1996, Retton’s prominence remained: For 20 years, Retton, now 55, was the only American woman to win the all-around title, until Carly Patterson became the second in 2004.

Retton was born in Fairmont, W.Va., and got her start early, like many top gymnasts. By the time Retton was 7 years old, she was training in gymnastics full-time.

Retton’s talent had been apparent from the start, but a big break came at an Olympics elimination tournament in Reno, Nev., in 1982, where she impressed Bela Karolyi, who would go on to coach her in the 1984 Olympics.

“I immediately recognized the tremendous physical potential of this little kid,” Karolyi said in a March 1984 interview.

Retton appeared in a number of films and TV shows in the late 1980s and 1990s, including the comedy film “Scrooged.”

After her athletic career, Retton became a motivational speaker to promote the benefits of proper nutrition and regular exercise.

Weeks After My Wedding, I Overheard My Husband and My Mother Talking – What They Said Made My Blood Run Cold

Claire thought her whirlwind romance was the start of her happily ever after—until an overheard conversation between her mother and her husband, James. Betrayed by the two people she trusted most, Claire embarks on a journey to uncover their motives and reclaim her life.

They say hindsight is 20/20, but no one tells you how much it can hurt. Looking back, the warning signs were there, flashing like neon lights. I just didn’t want to see them.

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A woman sitting outside | Source: Midjourney

It all started a few months ago when I met James during a rushed lunch break at a tiny coffee shop downtown. He was charming, attentive, and just the right kind of confident—the kind that makes you feel like you’re the only person in the room.

And he stole my attention away from the club sandwich I’d been craving all morning. Not to mention, his smile…

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Food at a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

Four whirlwind months later, he proposed while we were taking a walk on the beach. I said yes without hesitation. I mean, sure, people raised their eyebrows.

“Too fast,” Cyril, James’ uncle, said.

“Claire must be pregnant,” another person hissed at our engagement party.

“Maybe it’s about money,” my cousin, Melody, said.

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A couple at the beach | Source: Midjourney

But I didn’t care. I was convinced I’d found my forever person.

Our wedding was a modest, intimate, and beautiful affair. It had all the pink and champagne tones a girl could have hoped for. And I felt more special than I had in my entire life.

My mom, Patricia, couldn’t have been happier.

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Table settings at a wedding | Source: Midjourney

From the moment she met James, she gushed about how he was perfect for me. At the time, I thought it was sweet.

Now, I know better. Way better.

My relationship with my mom had always been complicated. She was overly involved in my life, especially after my messy breakup with my college boyfriend, Nick. I’d been devastated after catching him cheating on me with a close friend.

A woman sitting at a kitchen table | Source: Midjourney

A woman sitting at a kitchen table | Source: Midjourney

In our dorm!

For months, my mom hovered, offering unsolicited advice about love and relationships.

“You’re too trusting,” she’d say, or “You need someone who will protect you, Claire.”

But her protectiveness turned suffocating after a health scare two years ago when I was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes. It required constant management, like monitoring my blood sugar levels, insulin injections, and a careful balance of diet and exercise.

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A woman sitting in a hospital bed | Source: Midjourney

I had since stabilized, but it was as if my mom never got the memo. She saw me as fragile, incapable of navigating my life alone.

I should have realized that mindset would lead her to do something drastic.

Thanksgiving came and went with all the warmth and tradition you’d expect. My husband and I joined my parents for dinner, laughing over turkey and tons of pie, diabetes friendly, of course. After dessert, I headed upstairs to my childhood room. I’d left a box of keepsakes there and decided to grab it before we left.

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Pies on a table | Source: Midjourney

It was a box of friendship bracelets, bookmarks, old Polaroids, and love letters from school crushes. I also wanted to take my collection of first edition classic novels—James had finally built my bookshelf.

That’s when everything started to unravel.

I needed an empty box to pack the books, so I turned back toward the stairs, hoping that I’d find a box in the garage. As I approached the landing, I froze.

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A close up of a bookshelf | Source: Midjourney

Voices drifted up from the living room. They were low, hushed, and conspiratorial.

“Patricia, you know damn well that I wouldn’t have married her if you hadn’t given me the…”

That was James.

My stomach twisted, the pie mixing uncomfortably. What was he talking about?

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A shocked woman standing in a hallway | Source: Midjourney

My mom’s voice cut him off, sharp and urgent.

“Shh! James! She might hear us.”

I crept closer, my heart pounding.

“I’m just saying, the money is nice and all that. But you didn’t need to go that far. The money’s nice, but living with her… It’s not exactly what I signed up for. I have to check on her every single time the house is too quiet. And I have to monitor everything she eats. Do you know how difficult that is?”

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A woman standing at the bottom of the stairs | Source: Midjourney

I couldn’t breathe. My head spun.

What money? And living with her? My chest felt like it was caving in.

“I told you,” my mom whispered, her voice insistent. “She’s fragile. Nobody else would’ve… well, you know. Just be patient, James. It’s not forever. Soon, when she’s doing better at work, you can leave. She needs her confidence up first.”

Fragile.

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A woman holding her head | Source: Midjourney

It was like I was some kind of broken doll she’d handed off to be fixed.

James scoffed.

“Yeah, yeah, sure. But don’t forget, Patricia, I expect the rest of the payment by Christmas. I’m not sticking around if you don’t hold up your end.”

My legs wobbled as I backed away into my childhood bedroom, barely able to process what I’d just heard. My husband had been paid to marry me.

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A broken doll in a box | Source: Midjourney

By my own mother.

I sat in my room, staring blankly at the posters on the wall, the weight of their words pressing down on me. Fragile? No one else would’ve married me?

Every memory of James, the sweet gestures, the whispered promises, now all of that felt like a cruel joke. For the next few weeks, I lived in a nightmare. I pretended that everything was fine while secretly piecing through the truth.

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An upset woman sitting on a desk | Source: Midjourney

When James worked late, I dug through his belongings, finding bank statements that told a damning story. There were large deposits from my mom’s account labeled with vague memos:

For expenses. First installment. Final payment.

Of course, it was the final payment, due at Christmas, like James had demanded. That sent me reeling. James wasn’t just in this for the money; he depended on it.

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A woman using a laptop | Source: Midjourney

In his emails, I found conversations with friends mentioning gambling debts and maxed-out credit cards. My mom had essentially bailed him out in exchange for his cooperation.

I barely held it together. Every time James touched me, I flinched. Every time my mom called, I bit back the urge to scream. The betrayal stung in ways I hadn’t anticipated, shaking my self-worth to the core.

Did my mom think I was unlovable? Did James ever care about me at all? Was it all just a performance?

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An upset woman standing on a balcony | Source: Midjourney

I debated confronting them privately but then decided against it.

“No, Claire,” I told myself. “Don’t give them the satisfaction of something private and respectful. They deserve worse.”

A public confrontation would hold them accountable, preventing them from gaslighting me or spinning the narrative in their favor.

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A woman standing on a balcony and looking pensive | Source: Midjourney

Christmas Eve arrived, and my mom hosted the usual family dinner. Her house sparkled with holiday cheer—from the twinkling lights to the tray of cinnamon eggnog to the carols playing softly in the background.

James and I arrived early, carrying gifts. One of them, carefully wrapped and tied with a bow, held the evidence and damning truth.

The evening unfolded like any other Christmas Eve dinner. My mom’s smile was as fake as the plastic mistletoe hanging in the doorway. James played the doting husband, serving me from the platters of food, his arm constantly around me like nothing had changed.

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A tray of eggnog | Source: Midjourney

But inside? I was shaking.

When dessert was served, I stood, holding my “gift.”

“Before we get into the sweet treats,” I said, forcing my voice to remain steady, “I want to give Mom something special.”

Her face lit up, her eyes sparkling with anticipation.

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A woman standing in a dining room | Source: Midjourney

“Oh, honey pie,” she exclaimed, “you didn’t have to! You being here and being all happy and healthy is the only gift I needed.”

“Oh, no,” I said. “You definitely deserve this one, Mom.”

I handed her the box and smiled.

She tore into the wrapping paper, her smile faltering as she got through the box’s seal, uncovering the contents. A stack of papers. Her confusion quickly turned to panic as she read the top page.

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An excited woman sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

“Do you want to read it aloud, Mom?” I asked sweetly. “Or should I?”

The room fell silent.

“I… I don’t understand. What is this?” she asked.

“It’s a record of every payment you made to James,” I said, my voice cutting through the tension like a knife. “For marrying me.”

Gasps rippled around the table. James’ fork clattered to his plate.

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A shocked man sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

“Claire, I can explain,” he began to say while my mom spoke, too.

“Honey, I don’t know who told you what, but…”

I raised my hand.

“Save it. Both of you,” I said.

My mom spoke first, despite my words, her face was ghostly pale.

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A woman looking stern | Source: Midjourney

“Darling, I did it for you!” she said quietly. “I didn’t want you to be alone. After your father cheated on me when you were a child, I’ve had to live with being alone. It’s difficult and lonely. And you’re… sickly, Claire. I did it for you, honey.”

“You didn’t do it for me!” I shot back, my voice trembling with anger. “You did it because you think I’m not good enough to find someone on my own. Isn’t that right? It’s because you wanted control, isn’t it? Well, congratulations, Mom. You bought me a husband. And you’ve both lost me.”

James tried to interject, but I turned on him, fire in my veins.

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An upset woman sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

“And as for you,” I said, “my goodness. I hope the money was worth it. Because you’re not getting anything from me. Not another cent. My mother can continue being your bank for all I care. But this marriage is definitely over.”

With that, I grabbed my coat and walked out, leaving them to choke on the ruins of their lies.

It’s been a few months since that night. I filed for divorce early in the new year because it had been a nightmare to get any lawyers to work on it as soon as possible.

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A lawyer sitting at her desk | Source: Midjourney

James didn’t contest it. He probably knew fighting it would expose the payments, or bribes, or whatever you’d call it.

I’ve barely spoken to my mom. She’s tried to apologize, sending tearful texts and emails, but I’m not ready to forgive her.

Maybe I never will.

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A sad older woman | Source: Midjourney

Healing has been slow, especially because the stress of the situation had led me to eat things I wasn’t supposed to, causing my blood sugar levels to skyrocket, sending me straight to the hospital for a week.

But since then, I’ve been going to therapy, which has helped me unpack the hurt and rebuild my self-esteem. I’ve also reconnected with old friends who’ve reminded me of my worth.

I may not know what the future holds, but for the first time in years, I feel free. And that’s worth more than all the money in the world.

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A woman at a therapy session | Source: Midjourney

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