How we choose to raise our children and the lessons we decide to ingrain in them from an early age differs from parent to parent.
It’s only natural, of course. Some mothers and fathers take a more disciplined approach, for example, while others prefer to let their kids go through a try and fail cycle so that they can learn right and wrong through their own experiences.
Now, for the most part, how one chooses to style their son or daughter’s upbringing is their business, no one else’s. Yet that doesn’t stop people commenting and criticizing online every time a debate is sparked over some parental decision or another…
I remember when I was younger, doing chores was considered part and parcel of everyday life. I mean for me and my siblings, of course, not only my mother.
Doing dishes, making beds, helping to prepare food before mealtimes… the list goes on and on.
I understand times change, but in my mind getting children to help out with tasks around the house – providing there’s no danger involved – is a great way to instill values and a worth ethic that will come in handy later on.
It seems, though, that not everyone agrees. According to reports, one mother found this out the hard way a few years back after she uploaded pictures of her son and shared her method of giving him chores to do with the internet.
The mom in question, 22-year-old Nikkole Paulun, reportedly explained how she proudly put her 7-year-old son, Lyle, to work around the house, where he would help out with things like cooking and cleaning.
Nothing too dramatic, I’m sure we can all agree, but that didn’t stop online detractors from verbally attacking her and expressing concern over the potential impact on the child’s emotional well-being.
The bulk of the critics targeted the fact that the mother had shared her son’s chores online, not only potentially making other parents question themselves, but also flagging the idea that the child might not want to have his daily activities shared with a large number of strangers online.
One woman went as far as to write in the comments that Nikkole couldn’t just let her child “be your slave. Or to do the chores that you yourself don’t want to do.”
Another wrote: “So I take it you can do everything ur teaching ur son to do or are you just putting pressure on ur child?”
A third added: “Don’t get me wrong… a child should know responsibility. .. but should not be operating a stove that young.“
A fourth wrote: “Lazy mother’s are sweeping the country. It’s good to teach them while they’re young but i notice alot of these single mom’s are just raising their boy’s to be the man that they wish they always had.“
There were many who defended Nikkole in the comments, too, with her post gaining viral status after it garnered over 8,000 comments and 156,000 interactions on Facebook.
Nikkole herself insisted that she enjoys doing housework and that her son Lyle “just helps along the way & earns allowance as well.
What’s more, she added that her then-one-year-old daughter, Ellie, would be following in her elder siblings steps and doing the same thing when she was a little older.
What do you think to Nikkole’s parenting approach and the criticism she got for it? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.
Homeless Man Asked Me to Take His Dog – A Month Later, I Received a Mysterious Letter
I never expected my life to change on an ordinary afternoon, much less because of a stranger’s plea. When a homeless man asked me to take his dog, I was reluctant, overwhelmed by my own struggles. But a month later, I received a letter that left me in tears. What was in it? And how did it bring our lives together?
Sometimes, life has a way of surprising you when you least expect it.
For me, it all started with a simple request from a man who had nothing but love for his dog.
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It had been a year since my husband, Jason, passed away in a car accident. A year of struggling to hold myself together, to be strong for my 8-year-old son, Liam.
Some days were harder than others, but every day felt like a battle.
You see, losing Jason shattered my world.
He wasn’t just my husband. He was my partner. My best friend. My everything.
At first, I didn’t think I could go on.
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I’d wake up to the emptiness of our bed, hear the silence where his laugh used to echo, and feel the ache in my chest that never seemed to go away.
But every time I felt like giving up, I’d look at Liam. He needed me.
I couldn’t crumble when he was depending on me.
Liam, my sweet boy, had inherited Jason’s kind heart. He’d notice when I was having a hard day and quietly slip his arms around me.
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“It’s okay, Mom,” he’d say, his small voice full of reassurance. “I’m here for you.”
His words always brought tears to my eyes, but they also gave me strength.
My little Liam was with me when we were leaving the grocery store that day. He was wearing his oversized coat, chattering about his school project.
His enthusiasm was one of the few things that could still make me smile, even on my darkest days.
As we loaded the bags into the trunk, I noticed a man sitting at the edge of the parking lot.
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He was huddled under a threadbare blanket, his face red from the biting cold. Beside him sat a small, scruffy dog, trembling as it pressed against his side.
“Mom,” Liam said, tugging on my sleeve, “the dog looks so cold. Can we help?”
I glanced at the man, then at Liam. My heart sank. We didn’t have much to give. Money was tight, and I was barely keeping us afloat.
“Sweetheart, we can’t take on another problem right now,” I said gently, closing the trunk.
But as we prepared to leave, the man stood and approached us.
I instinctively froze, holding Liam close.
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“Ma’am,” he began, his voice hoarse and hesitant, “I’m sorry to bother you, but… would you take my dog?”
I blinked, unsure if I’d heard him correctly. “What?”
He looked down, his face filled with shame.
“Her name’s Daisy,” he said. “She’s all I have, but I… I can’t take care of her anymore. She’s freezing, and I don’t have enough to feed her. She deserves better than this.”
I didn’t know what to say. The desperation in his eyes was unmistakable.
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My first instinct was to say no. I mean, how could I possibly take on a dog when I was barely holding things together?
But then Liam tugged on my hand, his big, pleading eyes looking up at me.
“Mom, please. She needs us,” he whispered.
I looked at Daisy, her matted fur and trembling body, and my resolve crumbled. I couldn’t say no.
Not with Liam’s hopeful face and the man’s brokenhearted plea.
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“All right,” I said softly, crouching down to pet Daisy. “We’ll take her.”
The man’s eyes filled with tears. “Thank you,” he said, his voice breaking. “Thank you so much.”
As we drove home that day, I couldn’t stop glancing at Daisy in the backseat. She was curled up beside Liam.
I didn’t sleep much that first night. Daisy whined softly from her spot in the living room, clearly uneasy in her new surroundings.
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Liam had spread out his favorite blanket for her, the one with the cartoon dinosaurs he refused to sleep without.
“It’s okay, Daisy,” he said, patting her head with his little hands. “You’re safe now, okay? We love you.”
Watching them together filled me with an unexpected warmth.
And for some reason, the heaviness in my chest felt a little lighter. I guess I hadn’t felt this content ever since Jason passed away.
Over the next few weeks, Daisy became part of our little family.
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Liam doted on her, feeding her, brushing her tangled fur, and even reading her bedtime stories.
“She likes ‘Goodnight Moon’ best,” he announced one evening with complete seriousness.
I couldn’t help but laugh. “Is that so?”
“She wagged her tail when I read it,” he insisted, as Daisy rested her head on his lap, her eyes half-closed.
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Daisy brought something into our home that we hadn’t realized we were missing. Joy.
Liam’s giggles echoed through the house when she chased after a ball or licked his face with abandon.
Even I found myself smiling more, feeling a small sense of purpose in caring for her. It wasn’t just Daisy who needed us. We needed her too.
Then, a month later, something unexpected happened.
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It was a cold evening.
Liam was doing his homework at the kitchen table while Daisy snoozed by his feet. I was sorting through mail when I noticed an envelope tucked among the bills and grocery store coupons.
It was plain, with no stamp or return address.
It just had the words, From your old friend written in shaky handwriting.
Curious, I opened it and pulled out a folded piece of paper. As I read the letter inside, my heart clenched.
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Dear Daisy,
I hope you’re warm and happy. I miss you so much, but I know I made the right choice. You deserve a home, food, and people who love you the way I do. I think about you every day but knowing you’re safe helps me keep going.
I’m sorry I couldn’t be the person you needed. Thank you for being my friend when I had no one. I’ll never forget you.
Love,
Your old pal.
I didn’t realize I was crying until Liam’s voice broke through my thoughts.
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“Mom? What’s wrong?” he asked, his small face full of concern.
I showed him the letter, and his expression turned serious as he read it. When he looked back at me, his jaw was set in determination.
“Mom, we have to find him,” he said. “He shouldn’t be alone.”
This is what I meant when I said my son inherited his father’s kind heart. Jason was the same. He could never let anyone suffer.
“You’re right,” I told my son. “We’ll find him.”
A woman talking to her son | Source: Midjourney
The next morning, we packed a bag with food, a thick blanket, and some warm clothes. Liam insisted we bring Daisy along.
“She’ll help us find him,” he said confidently, scratching behind her ears. “She misses him too.”
We started at the parking lot where we’d first met him, but there was no sign of the man. The icy wind bit at our faces as we searched, asking people nearby if they’d seen him.
Most shook their heads, but a kind woman at a nearby coffee shop told us she’d seen someone matching his description at a soup kitchen downtown.
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Liam’s face lit up.
“Let’s go, Mom!” he said, tugging at my sleeve.
We immediately drove to the soup kitchen.
As we pulled up, Daisy suddenly perked up in the backseat, her tail thumping against the seat.
“I think she smells him!” Liam exclaimed.
Sure enough, there he was, sitting outside the soup kitchen, huddled under a tattered blanket.
He looked thinner, his cheeks hollow, but there was no mistaking him.
Before I could say a word, Daisy bolted from the car, her leash slipping from Liam’s hands.
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“Daisy!” Liam shouted, but she was already halfway to him, her little body shaking with excitement.
The man looked up just in time to catch her as she leaped into his arms.
“Daisy girl,” he whispered.
He buried his face in her fur, holding her as though she were the most precious thing in the world. Tears streamed down his face, and I felt my own eyes well up.
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I walked over, Liam close behind me.
“Hi,” I said softly. “I’m Emma. We’ve been taking care of Daisy.”
He looked up, his eyes full of gratitude.
“Thank you,” he said. “I missed her so much, but I knew I couldn’t give her what she needed. Seeing her like this… it means everything to me. I don’t know when I’ll be able to see her again.”
“You don’t have to say goodbye forever,” Liam told the man. “We can bring her to see you. Right, Mom?”
I nodded, smiling through my tears. “Of course. We’d love to.”
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From that day on, we visited him every two weeks.
We’d bring Daisy, along with food and supplies. The man never asked for anything except some time with Daisy. He wanted to hold her, play with her, and feel a sense of connection again.
Slowly, we got to know him better.
His name was Edward, and he had been through more hardship than I could imagine, yet his love for Daisy had never wavered.
A homeless man smiling | Source: Midjourney
Months later, another letter arrived. But this one had an address.
Dear Emma,
Your kindness gave me hope when I had none. I’m writing to tell you that I’ve started over. I found a job, and I’m staying in a small condo now. I’ll never forget what you and Liam did for me. Thank you for believing in me.
Your friend,
Edward.
Soon, Edward became part of our family.
A man standing outdoors, smiling | Source: Midjourney
I’m grateful that fate sent Daisy our way because it taught Liam the power of kindness. It also proved that even the smallest acts of love can change lives.
Sometimes, I think about how close I was to saying no that day. And how saying yes changed everything.
So, before you say no to kindness, pause and think.
The world thrives on kindness, and it needs those who step up without hesitation. Those who open their hearts even when it’s hard.
It needs people like you to make it brighter, warmer, and better for everyone.
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