How we choose to raise our children and the lessons we decide to ingrain in them from an early age differs from parent to parent.
It’s only natural, of course. Some mothers and fathers take a more disciplined approach, for example, while others prefer to let their kids go through a try and fail cycle so that they can learn right and wrong through their own experiences.
Now, for the most part, how one chooses to style their son or daughter’s upbringing is their business, no one else’s. Yet that doesn’t stop people commenting and criticizing online every time a debate is sparked over some parental decision or another…
I remember when I was younger, doing chores was considered part and parcel of everyday life. I mean for me and my siblings, of course, not only my mother.
Doing dishes, making beds, helping to prepare food before mealtimes… the list goes on and on.
I understand times change, but in my mind getting children to help out with tasks around the house – providing there’s no danger involved – is a great way to instill values and a worth ethic that will come in handy later on.
It seems, though, that not everyone agrees. According to reports, one mother found this out the hard way a few years back after she uploaded pictures of her son and shared her method of giving him chores to do with the internet.
The mom in question, 22-year-old Nikkole Paulun, reportedly explained how she proudly put her 7-year-old son, Lyle, to work around the house, where he would help out with things like cooking and cleaning.
Nothing too dramatic, I’m sure we can all agree, but that didn’t stop online detractors from verbally attacking her and expressing concern over the potential impact on the child’s emotional well-being.
The bulk of the critics targeted the fact that the mother had shared her son’s chores online, not only potentially making other parents question themselves, but also flagging the idea that the child might not want to have his daily activities shared with a large number of strangers online.
One woman went as far as to write in the comments that Nikkole couldn’t just let her child “be your slave. Or to do the chores that you yourself don’t want to do.”
Another wrote: “So I take it you can do everything ur teaching ur son to do or are you just putting pressure on ur child?”
A third added: “Don’t get me wrong… a child should know responsibility. .. but should not be operating a stove that young.“
A fourth wrote: “Lazy mother’s are sweeping the country. It’s good to teach them while they’re young but i notice alot of these single mom’s are just raising their boy’s to be the man that they wish they always had.“
There were many who defended Nikkole in the comments, too, with her post gaining viral status after it garnered over 8,000 comments and 156,000 interactions on Facebook.
Nikkole herself insisted that she enjoys doing housework and that her son Lyle “just helps along the way & earns allowance as well.
What’s more, she added that her then-one-year-old daughter, Ellie, would be following in her elder siblings steps and doing the same thing when she was a little older.
What do you think to Nikkole’s parenting approach and the criticism she got for it? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.
“Embarrassing,” Meghan Markle’s Latest Appearance Sparks Controversy as People Deem Her Dress “Too Revealing”
Meghan Markle’s surprise appearance at the Children’s Hospital Los Angeles Gala created quite a buzz, with reactions ranging from praise to criticism. Dressed in a bold red gown, the Duchess of Sussex turned heads, but her choice of attire sparked debate. While many commended her for supporting a charitable cause, others argued that the outfit was “unsuitable” for the event.
Meghan made an unexpected entrance at the annual Children’s Hospital Los Angeles Gala, catching everyone by surprise. The gala, which draws high-profile attendees to support pediatric healthcare, became even more talked about when Meghan arrived unannounced. Wearing a bold red halter-neck gown, she instantly captivated the room and turned heads with her striking presence.
Meghan’s outfit quickly stole the spotlight, though reactions weren’t solely about the fashion. While many fans praised her bold choice and admired her confidence, fashion critics were divided. Some viewed the striking gown as a powerful style statement, embodying her signature blend of elegance and modernity.
One critic remarked, “I wonder if she looks at herself in the mirror before she goes out? That dress just doesn’t look good on her!” Another added, “Yes, what a appropriate dress for a children’s function.” Additional comments included, “This is what you wear to a Children’s Hospital?” and “What’s she’s wearing for children’s event? Embarrassing…”
This is not the first time Meghan Markle has faced criticism for wearing inappropriate and overly revealing outfits. Recently, Meghan and Prince Harry visited Nigeria as part of the Invictus Games Anniversary celebrations. During this visit, Meghan’s choice of attire once again sparked controversy. Many deemed her dresses “revealing” and considered them inappropriate for the occasion.
Meghan also faced backlash for referring to Nigeria as “her country” after revealing she is 43% Nigerian. Critics pointed out the stark contrast between the Duchess’s lavish spending on attire and accessories and the country’s poverty, where over 112 million people live below the poverty line. This further fueled the controversy surrounding her visit.
Indeed, fans of the royal family often have plenty to say about Meghan’s looks. During her latest tour, people shared controversial comments regarding her choice of dresses. “I thought she hired a stylist? Inappropriate dress where the culture is modesty and especially to meet school children,” remarked one individual.
Meanwhile, Nicole Kidman also recently captured attention with her bold red carpet appearance, donning a daring dress that accentuated her cleavage. Some critics contended that the 57-year-old actress might be “too old” for such revealing outfits.
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