
Carrie Bradshaw once said, “I will literally be the old woman who lived in her shoes.” But Sarah Jessica parker, the woman behind the sassy fashionista in the hit TV show Sex and the City, isn’t Jimmy Choo-obsessed, nor does she have a wardrobe filled with playful tutus and strappy slip dresses.Still, the confident 58-year-old actor is fielding hateful comments from the online population who can’t understand why her real-life persona is contrary to the modish character she plays.
Parker, who’s proudly aging naturally, gracefully and beautifully, answers back saying it’s, “just not a reality,” and “there’s no time to let vanity enter.” Keep reading to learn what the lovely Sarah Jessica Parker has to say about aging!
In her role as the beloved Carrie Bradshaw in Sex and the City, Sarah Jessica Parker served some iconic, oftentimes controversial, looks.
While her character was considered a trendsetter by women across the globe, Parker in real life, has never been an urban chic fashionista.
“It’s not the way I perceive myself, I’m so low on my priority list,” said Parker, who raised three children while she was at the height of her career. “I love beautiful clothes and am privileged enough to have access to a lot them…but they also are returned the next day. They are not mine.”
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In real life, the star admits that she prefers a practical style, which isn’t always popular with the demanding public.
Unsexiest woman alive
In fact, in 2008, she was named in a Maxim poll as the “Unsexiest Woman Alive.”
Shortly after she earned the unflattering title, Parker spoke with Grazia (through Daily Mail) and said, “Do I have big fake boobs, Botox and big lips? No. Do I fit some ideals and standards of some men writing in a men’s magazine? Maybe not.” The star of And Just Like That continues, “Am I really the unsexiest woman in the world? Wow! It’s kind of shocking when men…It’s so brutal in a way…”
Years later, the Family Stone star appeared at the Met Gala wearing a golden Dolce & Gabbana gown that she paired with an ornate nativity headpiece.
Though she was serving an incredibly unique and smashing look, the public only commented on her aging.
“Aye real quick, how old is Sarah Jessica Parker because [her] skin look like tree bark and I’m confused,” said one. A second writes, “Is that Sarah Jessica Parker? Oh gosh she looks so old and worn out.”
Then, in 2021, the Hocus Pocus star was lunching with Bravo star Andy Cohen. Parker was makeup free, her silvery hair tied back in a braided ponytail.
It didn’t take long for the online population to start spitting hate over her appearance. But, Cohen, who also has a head of grey hair, defended his friend.
“We were at lunch and there was a paparazzi, and she’s sitting next to me, white hair,” said Cohen, 55, of his own white hair. Speaking on The Drew Barrymore Show, he continued, “All the articles were ‘Sarah Jessica Parker, she’s going gray’ and ‘She looks old,’ and it was insanity.
Here she is sitting next to me, who’s gray, and people just missed the mark totally. It was so misogynistic.”
Following that, Parker spoke with Vogue and had a lot to say about unforgiving people and their unrealistic standards of beauty.
“There’s so much misogynist chatter… I’m sitting with Andy Cohen, and he has a full head of gray hair, and he’s exquisite. Why is it okay for him?” Parker continues, “‘She has too many wrinkles, she doesn’t have enough wrinkles.’ It almost feels as if people don’t want us to be perfectly okay with where we are, as if they almost enjoy us being pained by who we are today, whether we choose to age naturally and not look perfect, or whether you do something if that makes you feel better.
She adds, “I know what I look like. I have no choice. What am I going to do about it? Stop aging? Disappear?”
Influential woman
The title of “unsexist woman alive” was upstaged in 2022 when the Golden Globe winning actor was named by Time as one of its “100 most influential people in the world.”
Though she may not dress the part of Carrie, who’s the star of the TV series, two films and the reboot And Just Like That, Parker does own her own designer brand, SJP, which – not surprisingly – started as shoes.
The star of Honeymoon in Vegas is also a TV producer, the co-founder of the spirit “The Perfect Cosmo by SJP” (Carrie’s favorite drink), is involved with publishing, fragrances and has a wine label – to name a few.
And just like that
Also unlike Carrie and her hapless search for romance, the star of Footloose found love in the early 1990s with Matthew Broderick, the star of Ferris Bueller’s Day Off.
The adorable couple – who starred on Broadway together – married on May 19, 1997, and have been together ever since.
When Broderick was asked to reveal his secret for a successful marriage, he answered: “I don’t know the secret at all, but I, you know, I’m very grateful and I love her. It’s amazing. I mean, I can’t believe that it’s been that long. It doesn’t feel like it.”
The couple share three kids, son James Wilkie (born 2002), along with twins Tabitha Hodge and Marion Loretta Elwell, who joined the family in 2009, via surrogate.
The woman leads a busy life and should be applauded for her accomplishments, not criticized.
Speaking natural in real life, the actor said, “It’s not how I think of myself, and I think it’s probably the healthier approach.”
She continues, “It’s just not a reality – not when you have three kids, and you go to the market, and there are hungry people at home. You have a limited time to do it. There’s just no time to let vanity enter into that.”
All My Left Socks Started Disappearing – When I Found Out Why, My Heart Stopped

Dennis, a single dad still mourning his wife, is baffled when one sock from all his pairs mysteriously starts vanishing. Frustrated and desperate for answers, he sets up a nanny cam. What he discovers sets him on a heart-pounding journey through his quiet neighborhood.
I know what you’re thinking: who makes a big deal about missing socks, right? Trust me, if you’d been in my shoes (pun absolutely intended), you would’ve done the same thing.

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Because when you’re a single dad trying to keep it together, sometimes the smallest things can drive you completely up the wall.
It started with just one sock. A plain black one, nothing special. I assumed it got eaten by the dryer, like socks tend to do.
But then another disappeared the next week. And another.
I don’t know about you, but after the fifth missing sock, even the most rational person would start getting suspicious.

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“Dylan?” I called out one morning, rifling through the laundry basket for what felt like the hundredth time. “Have you seen my other gray sock?”
My seven-year-old son barely looked up from his cereal. “No, Dad. Maybe it’s playing hide and seek?”
Something in his voice made me pause. Dylan had always been a terrible liar, just like his mother was. Sarah could never keep a straight face when trying to surprise me, and Dylan had inherited that same tell — a slight quiver in his voice that gave everything away.

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“Are you sure about that, buddy?” I pressed, studying his face.
He shrugged, suddenly very interested in his Cheerios. “Maybe check under the couch?”
I did check under the couch, and everywhere else. Behind the washing machine. In every drawer, basket, and bin in our house. I found $5 in spare change and some missing Lego blocks, but no socks.

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The mystery of the vanishing socks was driving me crazy. I even started marking pairs with little dots to make sure I wasn’t imagining things.
You’re probably wondering why I didn’t just buy new socks. Maybe that would have been the sensible thing to do, but most of the missing socks were novelty socks my wife had given me.
I tried wearing my smiling banana sock with the dancing cat sock, but it just didn’t work. Call me sentimental, but the thought of never being able to wear the silly socks my wife gave me again hurt my heart.

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“This is ridiculous,” I muttered to myself one evening, staring at a pile of perfectly good socks without matches.
That’s when I remembered the old nanny cam we’d used when Dylan was a baby. It took some digging, but I found it in the garage, buried under a box of Sarah’s old things.
My heart clenched a bit when I saw her handwriting on the box (“Baby’s First Year”). Funny how grief sneaks up on you in the smallest moments, isn’t it? But I had a sock thief to catch, and I wasn’t about to let memories derail my investigation.

A man searching through boxes stored in a garage | Source: Midjourney
Setting up the camera in the laundry room felt silly, but I was beyond caring. I deliberately hung up three pairs of freshly washed socks and waited.
The things we do as parents, I swear. If someone had told me five years ago, I’d be setting up surveillance to catch a sock thief, I would’ve laughed them out of the room.
The next morning, I nearly spilled my coffee in my rush to check the footage. What I saw made my jaw drop. There was Dylan, tiptoeing into the laundry room well before sunrise, handpicking one sock from each pair and stuffing them into his backpack.

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“What in the world?” I whispered to myself.
Now, here’s where I had to make a decision. The rational thing would have been to confront Dylan right there and then. But something held me back.
Maybe it was curiosity, maybe it was instinct, but I wanted to see where this weird sock saga would lead.
I set a trap for my sock-stealing son so I could discover what he was doing with all my socks.

A determined man sitting in his kitchen | Source: Midjourney
I hung more clean socks in the laundry room and kept a close eye on the nanny cam. I watched Dylan take the socks, but when he left the house, I followed him.
My heart raced as I tailed him at a distance, trying to stay inconspicuous. He turned onto Oak Street, a road I usually avoided because of the abandoned houses. Except, apparently, they weren’t all abandoned.
You know that moment in horror movies where everyone’s screaming at the screen, telling the character not to go into the creepy house? That’s exactly how I felt watching Dylan walk right up to the most decrepit one on the block and knock on the door.

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And when it opened, and he went inside? Well, let’s just say my Dad instincts went into overdrive.
“Oh heck no,” I muttered.
Every stranger danger warning bell in my head was ringing as I ran up the cracked walkway and burst through the door without thinking.
Not my proudest moment of rational decision-making, I’ll admit, but what would you have done?

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I stopped dead in my tracks.
The scene before me was nothing like I’d feared. An elderly man sat in a wheelchair by the window, wrapped in a worn blanket. Dylan stood in front of him, holding out a familiar-looking bag.
“I brought you some new socks,” my son said softly. “The blue ones have little anchors on them. I thought you might like those since you said you were in the Navy.”
The old man’s weathered face cracked into a smile. “Army actually, son. But I do like anchors.”

An elderly man in a wheelchair smiling | Source: Midjourney
I must have made some sort of sound because they both turned to look at me. Dylan’s eyes went wide.
“Dad! I can explain!”
The old man wheeled himself around. “You must be Dennis. I’m Frank. Your boy here has been keeping my foot warm for the past month.”
He smiled as he lifted the blanket, revealing that he had only one leg. Now, the one missing sock from each pair made sense!

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“He’s been keeping me well-supplied with apples, too,” Frank added. “And I can’t tell you how much I appreciate it. I’m a retired army vet and I’ve been alone here for a while. I watch the kids walking to school and back every day, but your boy is the first one to show me kindness.”
“We all saw him at the window,” Dylan blurted out. “Tommy and Melody said he was a scary ghost, but I knew they were lying. He’s just lonely and cold, and Mom always said that new socks make people feel better, remember? She’d buy us funny socks whenever we were sad.”

An emotional boy speaking to someone | Source: Midjourney
You know those moments that just knock the wind right out of you? This was one of them. Whenever one of us had a bad day, Sarah would come home with the most ridiculous socks she could find.
“Because life’s too short for boring socks,” she’d always say.
Frank cleared his throat. “Dylan’s been visiting me every day since then. First company I’ve had in years, if I’m being honest. My own kids left the country years ago. They send me money sometimes, but don’t visit much.”

A sad man in a wheelchair | Source: Midjourney
“I know I should have asked first, but I was worried you’d tell me I couldn’t see him because he’s a stranger.” Dylan said, looking at his shoes. “I’m sorry I took your socks, Dad.”
I crossed the room in three steps and pulled my son into a hug.
“Don’t apologize,” I whispered, my voice rough. “Your mom would be so proud of you. I’m proud of you.”

A man speaking to his son | Source: Midjourney
“He’s a good boy,” Frank said quietly. “Reminds me of my Jamie at that age. Always thinking of others.”
The next day, I took Dylan shopping. We bought out half the fun sock section at Target — wild patterns, crazy colors, the works.
I mean, if you’re going to be a sock fairy, you might as well do it right, wouldn’t you say? Dylan’s face lit up when I told him we could deliver them together.

A man and his son leaving a store | Source: Midjourney
Now, we visit Frank regularly. I help him with home repairs he can’t manage anymore, and Dylan regales him with stories about school.
Sometimes we bring him dinner along with the socks, and he tells Dylan war stories that somehow always end up being about kindness in unexpected places.
My sock drawer is still ridiculously full of single socks, but I don’t mind anymore. Every missing sock is a reminder that sometimes the biggest hearts come in the smallest packages, and that my seven-year-old son might understand more about healing broken hearts than I ever did.

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You know what’s funny? Sometimes I look at those mismatched socks and think about how life works in mysterious ways.
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