Mark Bryan is a robotics engineer who has been married for 11 years and has a daughter. He identifies as straight and chooses to dress unconventionally. Bryan is an American living in Germany, and he doesn’t believe that fashion has to be gendered. You can find Bryan wearing a skirt and heels to work or out anywhere else he goes on any given day.
Bryan said he doesn’t like how limited men’s choices are in the fashion department, especially when it comes to office attire. Men’s pants only come in a few colors, mostly black, gray, dark blue and the occasional pinstripe, and cuts.
The stylish dresser believes that if women are allowed to wear pants, men should be able to wear skirts and dresses as well. Bryan likes how skirts come in many styles and patterns – and many more colors – unlike men’s clothing.
Bryan prefers to mix traditional gender looks by wearing masculine attire on his top half, like a blazer and tie, and traditionally feminine attire on the bottom half. He will typically wear a pencil skirt and four-inch heels on the bottom.
Wearing high heels is no problem for Bryan. He first learned how to do it when his college girlfriend asked him to wear high heels while dancing with her so that they were on the same level. They continued this for over a year.
Bryan doesn’t let stereotypes or assumptions stop him from dressing in a way that brings him joy. He challenges expectations and does so unapologetically. Keep reading to hear what Bryan has to say about his fashion choices.
Bryan has a very clear idea about how he likes to dress. He told Bored Panda: “To me, clothes have no gender. I prefer skirts to dresses. Dresses don’t allow me to mix the genders. I prefer a ‘masculine’ look above the waist and a non-gendered look below the waist. It’s all about clothes having no gender.”
He continued: “I am old enough to remember that in school, the girls could not wear pants. Pants have now become a non-gendered article of clothing. So why can’t skirts and heels be non-gendered? Besides, men wore heels before women did. Maybe not today’s stiletto-style heels, but men did wear heels before women.”
Bryan is correct about that. High heels can look back on a long history. Although historians and archaeologists cannot date their invention clearly, they have been around at least since the 10th century. And they were not a fashion statement at first. No, the first recorded use of high heels was eminently practical: the Persian cavalry wore boots with heels, called a kalash or galesh, that made it easier for them to keep their feet inside their stirrups. This is, by the way, the same reason why cowboy boots have a small heel as well!
Since owning a horse was a sign of wealth, only well-off men could afford to wear these high-heeled boots. The use of them slowly spread across Europe, and high heels heels became one of the fashion signs of rich noblemen or traders. In fact, following the Great Schism of the Christian Church in the 11th century, even the pope wore high heels.
It wasn’t until several hundred years later that fashion slowly changed. During the 18th century, cultural concerns in Europe came up about the distinction between males and females and talk about what men and women should wear arose. This is the point in time where the belief that fashion is something effeminate and frivolous that “real men” shouldn’t care about hails from. Due to these changing beliefs, men largely abandoned high heels heels, as they were seen as impractical and mere accessories.
Bryan is one of the examples of how high-heels are slowly coming back as an accepted form of footwear for men. Although the engineer champions the option of wearing high-heeled shoes for men, he understands many people will look twice when they see him. He compares his style choices to someone who chooses to dye their hair bright colors. He explained:
“Take a person with bright green hair. Green hair is not normal. You look up and see this person, your mind tells you it’s a person with green hair, you think to yourself, that’s odd or interesting, then you go back to do what you were doing and don’t give it another thought. I believe this is the same when people see me in a skirt and heels.”
Bryan doesn’t have to struggle to find skirts and heels that fit him either. He wears a size 8 in skirts, and with smaller feet for a man, his shoe size in heels is 8.5. If you know a man who is considering trying out wearing heels and skirts too, Bryan suggests starting with a lower heel until you feel more comfortable walking in high heels.
What do you think of Mark Bryan’s style choices? Do you know any men who would try walking in high heels? Let us know, and be sure to send this along to your friends and family.
Neighbor Reports Family to Police Over Kids Using Trampoline, Parents Craft the Perfect Retort
Mrs. Whitaker, the always grumpy neighbor, had reached her limit when she called the police on Fred’s family because their kids were laughing. Fed up, Fred decided to confront her directly, leading to a neighborhood clash and an unexpected solution.
Living next to Mrs. Whitaker felt like living next to a ticking time bomb. She always found something to complain about, especially when it came to Fred’s family. To her, even the sound of children laughing was unbearable.
Fred and his wife, Laura, enjoyed spending time with their two kids, Danny and Emma, who loved to play outside, especially on their backyard trampoline. Their laughter brought joy to Fred, but to Mrs. Whitaker, it was like nails on a chalkboard.
Last week, it happened again. Fred was fixing a deck board when he heard a knock. He opened the door to find Officer Roberts, who had been called once more about the kids’ noise.
Officer Roberts, apologetic as always, walked around the yard, observing the children play. He sighed, knowing there was nothing wrong, but Fred was frustrated. This was about more than just a neighbor’s complaints; it was about their right to enjoy their home.
After talking with Laura about the situation, Fred decided it was time to take action. They brainstormed various ideas but ultimately agreed that Fred should confront Mrs. Whitaker directly.
When he knocked on her door, she immediately launched into an angry tirade, calling the kids wild and accusing Fred of being a terrible father. Shocked by her harsh words, he struggled to stay calm. He tried to explain that the children were just enjoying their childhood, but she insisted he needed to control them better.
Feeling infuriated, Fred returned home, where Laura was waiting. After hearing what Mrs. Whitaker had said, they both realized they couldn’t let her continue her behavior. They devised a plan: they would install a security camera aimed at her property and throw a loud party to show they wouldn’t be intimidated.
After setting up the camera, they invited all of Danny and Emma’s friends to what they called the “Noise-Maker Extravaganza”. By the time the party rolled around, over 20 kids were ready to have fun, and the backyard was transformed into a playground of joy.
On the day of the party, the laughter and excitement echoed throughout the neighborhood. Fred and Laura watched happily as the kids enjoyed the trampoline and water slide, knowing Mrs. Whitaker was likely seething behind her curtains.
As the noise escalated, Fred caught glimpses of Mrs. Whitaker glaring from her window. Feeling mischievous, he raised his drink in a playful toast to her. With that, she disappeared from view, clearly defeated.
After the party, life returned to normal. The security camera and bright light discouraged any further complaints from Mrs. Whitaker, allowing Fred’s family to enjoy their home without fear of interruptions.
One evening, Laura hugged Fred and smiled. They realized that sometimes, handling a difficult neighbor required a mix of cleverness and joy. They had reclaimed their home and happiness, reminding themselves that their family’s joy was worth fighting for.
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